wife is now having an affair with a black dude.His crazy I mean his planing to kill these guy i am sure about that and i have to do something b4 is too late.What can i do to help?
2007-02-12 00:31:55 · 20 answers · asked by o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don´t get involved!
Anyway, why does the fact that he is black make it worse? Sorry, I don´t get it!
2007-02-12 00:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus is my Savior 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Call in the proper authorities. This is not your business. Or is this "friend" really/actually YOU and you're looking for some "white sympathy" and the okay to kill a black man that your wife chose over you??? You do realize that just because she's your wife, that you don't own her life? You can't kill someone that she chooses to be with instead of you. That will land you in jail where you may end up sleeping with a black dude yourself...ya know?
Since you made the fact that it's an affair with a Black man, would you have reacted the same way if it were say a non-black man?
Just curious???????????????????????????????/
2007-02-12 00:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend to this guy, then I suggest you offer to help bury the body, and any witnesses to the crime, in some secluded location. Isn't that what a real true friend would do? Or, perhaps you could suggest that instead of actually killing this guy that your friend just break both of buddy's knees!! If he cant walk then he most certainly wont be able to f**k his wife. And the message would get across loud and clear I think-it worked for me! You could be his back-up, and watch to be sure that the coast is clear when he goes to do the dead, and then be the driver when it is time to leave; as well as having a good alibi for when the cops come around asking questions!! All these things to think of before doing the crime-unless your friend is willing to do the time after. Good luck!
2007-02-12 00:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to talk to your friend about the killing thing. How sure is he he about this affair??? I mean really, things arent always as they appear. But if he is insisting on killing people, you should let the wife, and local athorities, know what is going on. Theyre may not even be an affair.
2007-02-19 12:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that killing the guy doesn't solve the problem of having a wife who is looking outside of the marriage for satisfaction. He needs to look at himself or get himself a more faithful wife. Adultery is the only acceptable reason for divorce biblically speaking. Oh yeah, speaking of the bible, tell your friend it also really angers God when you ignore His commandment to "do no murder." The black just made it worse, huh? You had to have a reason to mention it. Interesting.
2007-02-12 00:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want to "help", i'd wait for him to go on his killing rampage, then go over and "check" on his wife. After all, it does appear that she has been in need of some "comfort". Since you know he is going to be "out" for a while, take your time and "comfort" her properly. It's the chivalristic thing to do. Any true friend would recognize you "getting his back" while he's "out", "taking care of business", just be sure to make the bed before you go.
2007-02-19 17:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Vivid C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call Cheaters --- or I'd let the wife know that the husband is on to her and that she'd better get the other guy clear out of dodge.
2007-02-17 10:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two simple steps
1. Talk to his wife and try explaining her what she doesn is wrong.
2. If she agrees, Never mind. Else, make sure you talk to your friend for applying a divorce with her. Atleast your friend will be safe.
2007-02-12 00:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Irismar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't any of your business. But why should he just target the guy, I am sure his wife went willingly and that is where he should start.
2007-02-16 06:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and if you don't want to you need to stay out of it and u need to stay away from ur friend b/c you will eventually become part of it, rather u were physically there or not
2007-02-19 09:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by puffy2step 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are so sure of the situation call the police.
2007-02-12 00:40:08 · answer #11 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋