I am 13, and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I have had a few boyfriends before, but at my age, we all know it is just close friends, and a title. But most girls havew already HAD their first kiss. Am I a freak?
2007-02-12 00:17:27 · 26 answers · asked by grafitichamp 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
give it time it will happen
2007-02-12 00:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a freak. The fact that u understand that at 13 having a boyfriends is just a "close friend" w/ a title is really cool...especially in a time when 13 year olds are going around having kids. Don't feel bad just b/c u haven't had a first kiss....I had mine when i was 19. It was the sweetest thing in the world. Thinking back on it, even though i am not w/ that person anymore, i still cherish the memory b/c it was w/ someone that i truly cared about and up to this day i can still feel the excitement and happiness that i felt that same day...almost 7 years later.
So don't rush things. Wait until u find that person that u really feel something special for and when it happens u will realize that it was worth the wait.
2007-02-12 09:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Team Jacob!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Definitely not. I know people who are 17 and have not been kissed.
If anything, consider yourself lucky because you're saving your first kiss for someone really special. Tell your friends that if they tease you about it. At 13 you can't drive or really go anywhere, so I don't consider that there's many serious relationships before one of the people is 15 or 16 or so.
Most girls do NOT get kissed at 13. That's just in books and movies. If they do, I think that's a bit skanky. A first kiss is something very special, and if they're willing to just kiss any guy that comes there way, well then...
Very few are serious at 13.
2007-02-13 10:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Firewheel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, kissing people is on the same level as what you described boyfriends; something you do to say you've done it. You are not a freak, and I would not even worry yourself that you haven't kissed anyone yet. Would you want to kiss someone and then hear about it all over your school the next day? Probably not. And if you haven't had your first kiss, don't cheapen it by making it with just anybody so you can say you've done it. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 15 and a freshman in highschool. Instead of worrying about boys in that way, I was making best friends with them in jr.high. Once I got to high school and began dating, I understood guys a lot better. I didn't have to be the girl that slept around, or that acted like a moron to get attention, etc. I could be myself because I was comfortable with myself. You have plenty of years ahead of you to kiss a million people, and to regret kissing most of them, trust me, lol. Don't rush things now. You should always remember your first kiss in a positive way, looking back and laughing at your awkwardness. Don't look back and think "Why did I kiss THAT guy?".
2007-02-12 08:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are not a freak, you're perfectly normal... as is every teenager who hasn't had their first kiss by 13, 14, 15, 16 or older. There is no set time that's "right" or "normal" for anything to happen in life -- it all depends on your particular circumstances, what's going on in your life, who's in it and who has yet to be in it.
If there's 1 thing I've learned in life, it's that everything happens for a reason... would you rather have your first kiss at 13 or 14 with some guy that you wind up regretting having dated at all (just for the sake of having had you first kiss when around the same time as your friends), or would you rather wait until you find the right guy.... the one that you know you'll look back on in years to come with fondness for having shared that experience with such a special person?
A first kiss is forever... you will remember that person for the rest of your life. You don't want it to be with someone random just for the sake of having done it the same time your friends did (worst reason ever).... wait for the guy who deserves the honor of being in your memory for the rest of your life -- he will come along someday, just have faith that he's out there waiting for you.
2007-02-12 08:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when I was 13 I did not have my first kiss until I was 20 and I am 24 now and all so don't be alarmed at all when it happens you will no and you will be happy also don't put your self down I am sure you are not a freak and all and you are like every other
teenage girl out there just waiting to be kissed and all so be patient it will come to you .
have a good day
2007-02-12 08:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by April R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't kissed until I was 14 and I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 15. I grew up to be a normal, happy person and have a great boyfriend right now!
Frankly, all of those people you kiss and do stuff with before you meet "the one" seem like a waste and a mistake anyways.
2007-02-12 08:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13, why are you worried about a 1st kiss? No you are NOT a freak. Seems to me that it's a GOOD thing that you haven't been kissing. Worry about school and don't let ANYONE pressure you into ANYTHING you're really not ready for!!!Kissing leads to other things that can lead to you having babies way to young......keep that in mind........enjoy being young,but be smart about it!
2007-02-12 10:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by bama g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry I didn't have my first kiss till I was 15 and I am 17 now it just take time...because I didn't even have my friend boyfriend intill near the end of my freshmen year in high school and I am only a junior now...trust but if you want an older girl to talk to about stuff that was like you...I am always up for it....tx_chick89@yahoo.com...my name is courtney..
2007-02-12 09:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by tx_chick89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a freak. Whats the rush?Do you want to kiss just anyone?When the right boy comes along,you'll know.Plus, don't you think he might like the fact that you don't run around just kissing anyone?Don't do something just because your friends are.Be a leader, not a follower.
2007-02-12 08:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by karen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my first kiss at 12 but a lot of my friends didn't have theirs till 13 or 14.
2007-02-12 08:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by Durty's Wifey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋