Which is the best way to die with out making problem to other??

Question

I dont have any target or ambition in this life, I dont want to live. I have no tension nothing. I feel nothing more to do. Then wht is the best way to finish life. I didnt like succide,accidental death nothing. Just a normal death!!

Answer 1

Die naturally. And there will be problems for those you leave behind, there always is, but if you want to prevent all the societal problems then prepare for your death. Make sure you provide a will, funeral arrangements, a way for your debt to be paid off, life insurance. Death is never easy for others.

Answer 2

if this feeling of disinterest has been going on for a couple of months and is not just a temporary thing than you may suffer from depression. See a doctor or counselor to check on this. If this is the case they can help you to feel interest in life again.
Apart from that, you probably wouldn't call any death except from old age natural, and you don't sound like this is imminent.
If you can get yourself to do some daily exercise (running, biking, whatever) that probably would help you to survive living until you die naturally. Being bored to death doesn't really happen.
If it hasn't been that long since you feel like this, I feel like this also once in a while, but then it goes away and I find there are plenty of interesting things to do after all.

Answer 3

first you have to ask, why don't you have target and ambition; we all feel lost at one time or another but it passes ; normal death occurs during living one's life; there is so much out there; if you don't have a good family base, start with you; go to the library and read some self help books; I like Deepak Chopra ; you do have to exert some time and energy on yourself; I know it isn't easy but it can be done; religious faith; just go sit in a church, quiet and reflect and think about your life , what you would like to do; life isn't easy; no one hands it to you on a silver plate but it is oh so worth living; the warm sun on a day; the birds flying and chirping , the ocean and waves; music that can fill your heart and inspire you; take a walk ; get help from family, friends, church , school; the world is full of life's possibilties, someday this feeling may make you just the right person to help someone else; seek out life , you have a gift, you are breathing and your heart is beating ; somewhere today , cherish it ; cherish you; there is no one else like you!! You are special not you just have to do the work to know that yourself; help yourself , you can do it! my thoughts and prayers go out to you; fill your heart with love for yourself and others; all the rest will follow!!

Answer 4

the best way is to die old, a dignified death in bed. without any word, hue or cry. i wish to die that way.

i don't want to take off on "I don't have any target or ambition in this life, I don't....". but all i want to say is that there is so much to explore, so much to learn, so much enrich ourselves with in this world. and finding the value of life and living it is the greatest aspect of human existence. we humans are higher order beings, not mere living creatures that walk on the face of the earth. so if anyone thinks there is no target or ambition then that person is not making any serious efforts to explore the endless possibilities that the world offers. i once read about Helen Keller. and i want you to know about it. H. Keller wrote that her friend came to visit her. to visit her place, people had to take a route through thick forest. this friend came and H. Keller asked her what she saw on the way. the friend replied in a usual way that she did not notice anything that's eye catching or worth mentioning. H. Keller was surprised with her friend's response. she thought, there is so much beauty to see that nature offers for the mortal eyes. how could her friend miss it out? i hope you can get the gist of what i am trying to say. this lady, H. Keller lost her eye sight and sense of hearing when she was too young.

what we, those who have eyes to see and ears to hear, fail to notice in this world carry the the essence of life. if we can find the true beauty of it, then we would have found a target and an ambition.

somehow, i can make out that your words are not angst ridden (am not judging, just an analysis). but i do respect your question and will try to answer your question logically.

i always believe, the One who gives life can take life. He has the ultimate right to "finish life". we have no right to take life.

Answer 5

I do not know why you choose death when so many others would love to live but loose the battle. Nor would I ever understand why you do not have ambition in life.

However I do know that when it is your time to go, you will go. But my dear, you do not live for ambition, yours or parents, society or life. You live for yourself.

We are all part of this universe, one act from you will cause a tsunami effect to people as far as the east, just the butterfly effect, a gentle flutter of the wing can cause the change of the energy of the universe.

If you must choose, CHOOSE LIFE.

Answer 6

Wait, till your time is due, for the "black rider" to come and help you to follow your path.
All the other ways will create problems not only to others, but to you as well. Specially if you accept the "Reincarnation Dogma" you will be in real trouble.
Start again from ground "Zero".
The best way is to find about new targets and create new ambitions.
"A quiter never wins and a winner never quits".

So, build up a winner and start walking again. You'll find targets and ambitions on the way.

Answer 7

Dear,
You don't need to die. Kill hopelessness. Always consider that you have only one day to live. Because, yesterday is gone and tomorrow, no body knows for tomorrow. You may have plans for tomorrow but no one is sure for it. God is great!!!!! Wait, you will get an opening, for sure. This is my practical experience. Because, I too have undergone such severe depressions. Time is a best cure for every thing. Believe it. I can foresee a very best time waiting for you. Which is all yours. Don't worry. I know this thing. This is not a sympathetic language. I am telling you a solid truth. Because, I have written the fates of many others like you. So long, and have a nice time.

Answer 8

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 9

When it is your time to leave us there is no easy way to say goodbye. most often when they leave, it is by surprise..Many have had the courage to look beyond their leaving to prepay a financial cost. they are fortunate. Yet there are those who still live and they leave behind problems they care not to face. they cause a painful problem which lasts much longer than the final passing of a person. May you know peace and leave peacefully.

Answer 10

First of all why don't you seek help, if you really wanted to die you would do it the fact that your asking shows you are hoping to find help why not see a shrink or another form of help, what do you have to lose?