Do you think that there would be a problem after the fact?
2007-02-12 00:09:08 · 12 answers · asked by Dez 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Threesomes can be very damaging to a relationship or it can be a positive addition to a relationship. My experience though has been one that was negative. We each went into it with different expectations and desires from the encounter. When it didn't live up to my expectations it put a huge strain on the original relationship. The thing that each of you has to answer is what do you want out of this type of encounter. Talk with your partner and find out how each of you look at it and what you want. Bring up between you the possibility of it causing a rift in your relationship and how you will deal with that if it happens. If you don't look for what the problems could be before you go into this sort of thing then trying to deal with the problems while in the midst of them will be far harder for you.
2007-02-12 02:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a love relationship with monogamous women, I think it would eventually cause a problem. In a "friend with benefits" relationship, anything goes! I have some friends who were in monogamous relationships and tried threesomes. All the relationships broke up within a few months.
Like anything in life, only YOU can decide for you.
2007-02-12 08:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship. Me and my gf will never bring another woman into our relationship. Im greedy.. But if the relationship is just a sexual relationship it may not affect it. If it is a im in love relationship, then bringing in a third is a bad idea. Some may think that it is like cheating, even tho you are there but someone else is doing your girl. also there might be thoughts of your lover wanting to be with the other more.
2007-02-12 08:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily: it will depend on the relationship and the reasons behind opting for a threesome. Irrespective of secual orientation.
2007-02-12 08:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my girl for 16 years (married for 3,5 years), we've had several threesomes and never there have been any problems afterwards,
but that's because we trust each other
2007-02-12 08:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, have no interest in it (two's company, three's a crowd). My partner has no interest in it, either. we are a committed, monogamous couple. I know people enjoy it, and, hey...whatever floats your boat! If you can deal with it, fine. but I have had a friend or 2 that tried it (and been in the same relationship for about 8 years), and it destroyed her relationship.
2007-02-12 08:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, as most of these relationships end up in failure just like the straight relatinships..over half will not last the test of time..go figure.?
2007-02-12 08:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and I dabbled that a bit and the only thing that came from it was next time the rthird will be hottewr and a stripper
2007-02-12 09:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know how YOU will act is to do it
2007-02-12 08:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly
2007-02-12 08:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋