For the past 10yrs, I've been trying to better my life: go back to school, improve credit, better my relationships, acheive more in my new career, live in the city of my dreams,and find someone to share my life with. Instead, I'm deeper in debt, I can barely pay my rent, I'm lonely in this new city, my jobs have not worked out, and I'm only meeting men who only want to sleep with me. Things started going downhill as soon as decided I didn't want to settle for mediocre and that I deserved not to settle. I'm feeling like a complete failure. Why work hard to improve my skills only to be passed over for promotion cuz I don't do drugs with management? Why present yourself with style and class when some men just really want you to be a whore?What's the point of fight to climbi a ladder only to find yourself deeper in a whole?
2007-02-12 00:07:36 · 3 answers · asked by Superspice 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You never stop trying.
What you must do is to re-examine your goals, your timing and the ways you handle things. Maybe there, is some problem in your pattern that you do not realize.
I believe if you sit and talk with yourself and make some transformations, you will find new pace and things will work better.
It is true some of us meet many difficulties and there are times we want to give up but, thank God, there is something inside that keeps us going and hoping for a better day. Don't let disappointment bring you down. Re-evaluate, examine new possibilities, new ways that might suit you better.
I wish you all the luck.
2007-02-12 00:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By no means do I give out expert opinions, but it sounds like you've lived a meaningful life.
I say this because you've tried out things you've always wanted, so what if they didn't work out? At least you won't regreat not having trying them. I don't think that just because you stuck to your principles, makes you a failure.
Please don't be depressed simply because things didn't work out quite the way you thought it would. Maybe you just have to give yourself a break, lower your expectations a little, do anything you can to help relief you from your stress. Things will all work out at the end.
2007-02-12 00:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sabr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stop when you're dead...
until there is breath in your lungs... until there is strength in your body... until there is blood coursing through your veins... until your brain is still functioning... until your heart yearns for something more... until you count even to a few people... until you have a choice in doing better... you never stop...
once you do... your a zombie... a living dead...
Hope that helps... ;-)
2007-02-12 00:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋