When you and your spouse split up....Was it you or your spouse that left? How did you know it was time?
2007-02-11 23:44:28 · 7 answers · asked by This too shall pass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Me and either he or i was going to kill each other...Time to go...
2007-02-12 00:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I left and left him the house just to get out. I took the kids and we paid off everything we owed together. He thought it was going to be great to keep his paycheck all to himself until 2 years later when I got remarried and he didnt want to pay for his kids anymore.
I knew it was time to leave because he was obsessed with sex with men because he was "molested" as a child. He used to hurt me in front of the kids and I couldnt take it anymore. Now he uses being molested as an excuse that he is unstable and cant work. The courts saw right through him and raised his child support and suspended visitation with his kids because he is violent and mentally abusive. He hasnt seen them in a year since he beat up his new wife because he "wants to be gay".
I could write a book on this man but it would be a waste of paper.
2007-02-12 01:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was me that left I was well and truly overdue to go he had had that many affair's it wasn't funny and I kept making excuses for him, in the end I left for the children's sake I didn't want my son growing up believing this is the way you treat women, and you know I did the right thing my son he's happy and married and Love's his wife it took me a long long time to stop caring but I met a very loving person many year's later who is totally different and now I no I made the right move good luck with life
2007-02-11 23:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by yah yah sisterhood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex left. It worried me and worried me and I tried to get him to come back until I found the cell phone bill. It was evidence in our divorce hearing. After I found out about her, there was no more wanting to be with him.
2007-02-12 00:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by SB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i left him
and you just wake up one day and say I HAVE HAD ENOUGH
i put it off for 6 yrs thinking he would change or it would get better and it never did
when you get the brass balls to do it you will know
there is no doubts
2007-02-11 23:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left him, the verbal abuse and emotional roller coaster and the cheating wasnt worth it
2007-02-12 01:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My x left.. and he knew it was time because he couldnt seem to control the head in his pants..
2007-02-11 23:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋