2007-02-11 23:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by † Iríšh † 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-02-11 23:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is hard question with no easy answer. I would say 'yes and no' to having regretted loving somebody. Yes you can regret it because oftentimes with real loves comes a lot of pain, sometimes bad break-ups etc. One starts thinking 'why did I bother if it all ended so badly?'. Yet then again one can never appreciate true love without having gone through the pain of someone hurting you. Love is a great and powerful force and the greatest vindication is finding someone to love and them loving you back and treating you right.
2007-02-12 02:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by fadeoba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is regret?
Regret arises from memory. Something arises and we remember a past time which may be painful or pleasureable. If it was pleasureable we wish we could go back to that time and re experience it.
But if we look more closely we will notice that the separation between the past (back then when I experienced pleasure) and the the present (me here now not experiencing pleasure) is the true cause of our regret. It is our failure to appreciate what life is offering us at this moment that causes pain and conflict.
True happiness can only exist in this moment NOW. It does not exist in the past. It does not exist in memories. When one studys oneself closely one will gain self awareness and this leads to freedom from regret. We see that we are creating the regret. Regret is not a thing 'happening' to me. I am creating the regret now. I choose it. It is wonderful. There is no need to control it. It is. And yet you are free.
2007-02-12 00:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because each person that I have loved have brought some wonderful memories, and some great lessons about myself, life, and what is truly important.
I believe if you can grow from every situation then there is nothing to regret.
2007-02-11 23:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it resulted to sponsoring my ex wife now I am held responsible financially for her for 4 more of 10 years from immigration.
2007-02-11 23:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer sense sorry approximately loving anyone via fact I consistently attempt to earnings some thing fro somebody else, yet I do sense sorry relating to the waste of my TIME, the years spent attempting to restoration some thing that became on no account meant to be.
2016-12-17 08:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because even from the bad relationships, we grow. In having those experiences we learn how to have more positive fulfilling relationships, and appreciate the good that we didn't see/have before.
2007-02-11 23:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, every moment that happens to you makes you who you are in the end.
2007-02-11 23:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by rainbowstylin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, my Wife
2007-02-11 23:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has hurt, but i guess it all makes up who you are... but lol yes at times I have
2007-02-12 00:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋