Me and my best Friend know each other quite long time ago. We cuddle,kiss, hug and close to each other.She did tell me her feelings to me before but by tat time i still cant accept tat i was lesbian and i had a bf. I knew i don love my bf because something was missing. I Want My best friend so much tat hope can every second Be with her. And after a year. I Finally broke up with my Bf and tell my best friend about my feelings. But from tat time.. She started to change. We got in alots of fight. Recently. She did not care me as before anymore. I still try to save this friendship which i really care. I hurts alot and cry and cry. I tell myself let go this Friendship. I think she know about this but she did not care much about it. wat should i do?Should i let it go?i am so sad and confused...help me please.
2007-02-11 23:13:55 · 5 answers · asked by *slush.* 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
one poster said maybe she'll only want you when you don't want her. do some soul searching - is it possible that it is you who wants only what you can't have?
if that is not the case, try to see her side. she put herself out there and was rejected. a lot of people become cold when that happens - it's a defense mechanism, and a good one.
i know you are hurting now, regret is one of the most painful emotions, but it sounds like you need to move on, let her do the same. you know she deserves someone who won't put her through what you did - not saying you hurt her on purpose, just saying you did hurt her.
and if all this is still new, you really should get things straight in your head before you pursue anyone else - you just hurt two people because you didn't know what you wanted, don't make it a habit.
2007-02-12 00:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by mommynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May little advice is that be true to urself and dont force if it cant be force! hmm.. maybe she needs more time and space to think.. if she doesnt want to be friend to you maybe you should let her go and live your journey alone.. but dont forget her because she.. i think she is just part of your life if she accepts you then go!! but.. maybe you in a little long run you could find or met someone better that can accept you as awho your are. Continue be her friend even she doesnt because it doesnt matter if she will be your friend or not because what is important is that you... again you be her friend even she isn't..coz having a true friend is should not be greedy.. as long as you didnt do bad things to someone and specially to ur best friend...hope this will a bit help to you.. Good day!
2007-02-12 07:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Fairee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT press the issue!
If she wants you then she'll come get you or let you know in some way shape or form.
Don't force anything...Maybe if you ignore her then she'll come checking for you. Some people love a challenge...she wanted you when you were not sure of yourself and had a boyfriend and now the fact that you are an "easy catch", she's not as interested.
**Play hard to get**
**Get a new friend who likes you and start spending time with her**
2007-02-12 07:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dez 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with her - when she's around, then you know that you might be happier when she's not around. Look elsewhere for your love.
2007-02-12 07:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are beyond help
2007-02-12 07:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋