well i had my b'day recently this july and almost none of my frnds showed up? it was da most suckiest 20th b'day, these people like me and all although we arn't dat close frnds we all enjot each others company.Nyways now to get to da point i recently introduced this new gurl to my group (P.S she isn't dat close to my group) we have all been frnds for a year now and her b'day is comin up so most of my frnds are makin plans at goin for it and now i dont wanna go, i'm feeling really jealous of her and angry at my frnds and i cant lash at them coz i am not a kid. But i hate this bitchy frnd of mine who acted all sweet and now she wants all my frnds to want her. and she isn't even dat funny they only know her coz i am there in dat group.
2007-02-11 23:11:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-02-11 23:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lean back in your chair and stop reading these answers and concentrate on your question. Now does that sound like a twenty year old talking? Leave the teenage stuff behind you and stop being jealous. If you don't go to her party then everyone will know the real reason why and may not want you in the group any longer. Sorry to be so blunt but Good Luck.
2007-02-15 17:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be happy if your happiness depends on the condition of the external world around you. You will especially not be happy if you depend on other people for your happiness.
Your question reveals a mind in a chaotic mess of needs and desires and entanglements which are creating conflict. What is it your really want? What is jealousy? What is anger? Why do you need to be part of a group?
Honest introspection on these points can lead to an insight, and this insight brings self awareness and this is the gateway to a REAL happiness, the happiness of Being.
2007-02-11 23:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay calm down first. your friends will sense your jealousy and try to avoid it. that may push them further away from you and closer to her. the fact that they didn't show up on your birthday really stinks even if something came up. but you need to make a choice...keep em or lose them. if you really value them you will be the bigger person and go to her party. after all you brought her into the group they might just be trying to be cool with your friend. also if she really has alterior motives like you say then her true colors will eventuallt show. nobody enjoys a fire starter so don't bad mouth her to your friends.
2007-02-11 23:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling jealous is normal.. its seems u r afraid of losing friends and that to a stupid girl. Dont loose heart dump all ur stupid friends and make new..
2007-02-11 23:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... I think it's normal to be jealous and I know you're not perfect but you must not be!! It's unfair for the new girl... In the first place, you're the one who introduced her to them. and you still call her your friend if you think of her that way??? it's not a pleasing answer but , girl, you really must change your attitude..
2007-02-11 23:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are almost 21 you are right...you cant act like a spoiled child....just dont go if it bothers you that much. AND, if you are almost 21, its time to start spelling like an adult.
2007-02-11 23:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand a word you just said
2007-02-11 23:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋