We have been great and we use to have make love like nearly every night but now his still ok with it but i find i dont want to!! I do love him but when ever it comes to it i try and put it off!! i use to be fine but now i just dont want to make love i just put it off help!!
2007-02-11 22:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Elektra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
bless you - I am the very same sweetheart - but I believe its just a phase - you'll be back riding the horse so to speak eventually - could be weeks could be months - I am personally on months at the moment!! Its not because I don't like my fella or love - gosh I really do - but I just can't be bothered, I don't have the motivation - I'd sooner watch tv or have a cuddle, when we do it though - I really enjoy it and wonder what the fuss is about!! sometimes I even find myself causing an argument in order to get out of doing it and after I have no idea why i did!!!! just a pahse ALL women go through and you will get it back soon! as long as you still love him and like him etc. Ask your mum, your friends, sisters, colleagues etc - even male ones, they will all tell you the same!! everyone goes through it!!
Good luck
xxx
2007-02-11 23:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have now been together for four years and the lust side of the relationship has worn off a bit, but you must be honest with yourself why you do not want sex as much now, is it because you are tired or worrying about something. You must talk to your guy and explain what you true feelings are tell him that you do love him but...................... Maybe you can have more romantic evenings to get you in the mood before bedtime. I think the answer is to talk, talk, talk, to him, you do not want to lose him. Good luck to you everyone does not feel sexy all the time. Quality is better that quantity every time.
2007-02-12 07:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your no different to any other woman I've known. At 1st they want to screw a bloke 24/7 then a couple of years down the line he's put on rations and wondering whats up or if you've got another man. Truth is its just what happens with most women. Every guy I know complains about this.
2007-02-12 08:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go through lulls
is there more stress in your life now that may be the problem
also when you move in it is different then when you don't live with each other you have to work at relationships when you are together morning noon and night
give it time talk to him maybe you will find the problem together and work it out
2007-02-12 07:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once I didn't believe in sex before marriage,but now I do because you don't get any after your married
2007-02-12 07:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by bty937915 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me but see your doctor as it could be a hormone thing
2007-02-12 07:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 years? Could be a symptom of menopause. Tell your GYN.
2007-02-12 07:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋