as in can u make them stop crying, or do u basically make the problem worse?
2007-02-11 21:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by pixoncoke 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It feels REALLY weird having that person hear my thoughts while she's crying, so no.
Imagine this: The girl's crying about her lost relative, and I'm thinking "He's never coming back" by accident. Somehow, I make people stop crying quicker, but uncomfortably.
2007-02-11 22:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what her/his problem is. If I experienced it before, it would become so easy for me to put me in their situations to share their feelings and make them feel stronger. If not, it would be so hard and once I'm not careful, I'll just make the problem worse. However, crying people often feel so lonely and depressed so having someone besides would be the most wonderful thing for them at that time. Maybe you don't say anything, just listen to them, but that's better then leaving them alone.Try.
2007-02-11 22:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by â?¥ [S]and{Y} â?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I'm pretty good with crying people. I usually can make my girlfriend stop crying and cheer up, but sometimes if I know she's had a real tough day I will just let her cry on my shoulder, because sometimes you just have to let it all out.
2007-02-11 22:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have to deal with my younger brother a lot bc our grandmother died like a month ago and he cries a lot. i hold and rub his back and let him cry for a few minutes to get it out of his system and then i comfort him and reassure him that things are better for her now bc in heaven she is no longer in pain and that even though he misses her and it hurts, he'll still see her again someday.
you just have to understand their situation. put yourself in their shoes and find out how they feel and what is making them so upset. then comfort them the way you would want to be comforted if you were facing the same problem.
remember, when someone is crying they are not just upset but vulnerable so be careful how you handle the situation but most of all, just let them know you care. nothing is better than that
2007-02-11 21:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by snowbunny83090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can usually get them to stop.
2007-02-11 21:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always cry too,which seems to stop them!
2007-02-11 22:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by missy k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes iam.
2007-02-11 22:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am
2007-02-11 22:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
billy is usually no help :(
2007-02-11 21:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so gud that i end up cryin w/her....
2007-02-11 22:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋