I am 16 and i think i might have thrust but my mum seems to be taking it really seriously! I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and she doesnt know that i have been sleeping with him, is there anything in a wee sample that can tell her? Please help i have to do it 2day!!!
2007-02-11 21:42:42 · 18 answers · asked by emily19xx 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The doctors will not disclose this information to your Mum even if they could tell from a sample. It is a code of conduct called "Medical in Confidence" so don't worry.
However don't imagine you can conceal this from your Mum for ever. She probably suspects already. You might find she is more upset by your not coming clean with her than with the act of sleeping with BF.
There is nothing she can do to stop you from doing this as your are of legal age - you might have an easier mind when you finally get round to talking to her about it.
2007-02-11 21:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by stgoodric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that "thrust" is the problem, you may have had too much of it from a contaminated source. However, if you have "thrush" this can be easily dealt with by a doctor. they see. This is a very common occurance and can have many causes. This infection actually lives in our bodies anyway and just needs some thing to instigate the unpleasantness of it. Your mum will not know if you have been sleeping with anybody but the doctor will ask (to make sure you know that your partner is aware.) The thrush symptons will often show up with your boyfriend als, so it is important that he also sees a doctor. Do not let either of you be ashamed or afraid, every one gets this at some time. The shame would be in not treating it as then big problems could occur. Be careful, take precautions against pregnancy.
2007-02-11 21:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by david t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to worry you but you do not do a wee sample to find out if you have thrush so I am guessing your mum is aiming for you to be tested for other stds perhaps. There is nothing in a wee sample that can tell her if you have been having sex other than if you are pregnant or have a sexually transmitted condition. At 16 you are quite old enough to go to the doctors on your own and get it dealt with - why even involve your mum.
2007-02-11 23:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by LillyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are 16 the doctor will not be allowed to tell your mum any of the information he/she finds out as it is confidential. If your mum insists she come in the doctors room with you for the results, tell her you would prefer to go in alone & you need your privacy on this matter.
If your urine sample is being tested for any sexual infections IF and only if you had caught Clamydia from your Boyf would this show up. If you have been practising safe sex using condoms however this will not even be a possibilty.
Thrush can be passed on from another person sexually but it can also be the cause of many other things (tight clothing, douching etc) in women. The fact your mum is concerned you be checked out is probably because she suspects you are intimate with your boyf and is just doing it to be cautious.
2007-02-11 22:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in a wee sample can tell your mum you've been sleeping with your boyfriend only an internal examination done by the doc but even them the doc cant be certain. If you think you have thrush go to chemist and buy some canestan pesseries and cream that will work no probs good luck it happens to the best of us
2007-02-11 21:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by pagan1973 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, there is nothing in a wee sample that will show you are having sex. Your mum probably assumes you are having sex anyway if you have a long term boyfriend, so I wouldn't worry too much about it, as long as you're being safe!
2007-02-11 21:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing to test that you have lost it. Just know that a pap smear is the only thing that is going to tell that. Also with a papsmear they can't tell you mother if you don't want them to. It is called patient doctor confindetionality. Just talk with you doctor. Make sure that you have no signs of STDs or pregnacy. This will tell you mother very quickly. Good luck!
2007-02-11 22:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is not, but if you have an STD or pregnant that would come up. Best advice i can give you is to tell your Doc to keep things confidential from your mother. To talk to you first
2007-02-11 22:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a urinalysis (a "wee sample") can show if you are pregnant, if you have an infection, or if you have diabetes, among other things. A urinalysis will NOT show if you are sexually active or not, however, your doctor may ask if you are sexually active as a part of your general medical history
2007-02-11 21:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She won't be able to know this, unless of course, you're pregnant. Don't react when she talks about sex with you, just take it easy. If you react to a single word she says, she might have a doubt.
2007-02-15 06:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋