I have a friend that has sex on HER first date it groses me out I feel she has got no respect for herself. Do you think I should tell her what I think of it?.......
2007-02-11 21:38:56 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you should tell her what you think
2007-02-11 21:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by ~ Just Me ~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you certainly don't want to be mean because that won't help at all, but maybe there is a way for you to gently tell her that giving in to a guy on the first date will almost certainly backfire on her. She's probably doing it to please them in hopes that they will like her better. But in reality it just makes them move on to a different girl faster and not actually get to know her true self. Tell her that she's amazing and that if all a guy wants from her is sex and not to get to know what's in her heart and her head, then he's not worthy of her!
2007-02-11 21:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by spaacedogg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You have to tell her. Even though it's hard cause I think saying that thing that you thought of is kinda harsh. But yeah, who knows? Maybe she's gonna change and think for a while about what she has done to herself. And besides, you're her friend. That's why you're telling her what you think of what she has done. It's wrong right? So.. Yeah. Tell her about it and give some friendly advices. :) Don't be too harsh. Or else, she'll get more hurt.
2007-02-11 21:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does you having sex inclusive of your b/f in his mothers and fathers homestead inclusive of his dad precise outdoors the door say about you? you're shacking up with this guy and not in any respect married to him hon, what does THAT say about you? The kinfolk is trash, the b/f will be 1/2 way good, notwithstanding the daddy needs GOD in his existence he's immoral and so is the mum. i think sorry for the daughter. notwithstanding in case you've been having sex inclusive of your b/f once you met his dad, then he requested you that query because he formed a low opinion of you due for your habit hon. maximum adult males would in trouble-free words imagine it, he had the gall to say IT out loud although. you opt for to indicate church to them and in the experience that they say no, then shrink off all contact and pass on.you won't be able to replace them,all you ought to do is factor them in the route of help. i wish you and the b/f get married and function a cheerful existence.perchance once you both get an component of your human being you could help his sister.
2016-11-27 03:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to tell her that it disappoints you but be careful not to come accross that you are telling her what to do or you could have some serious drama in the making. It all depends on how good of friends you are.
2007-02-11 21:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that's it's really your place to tell her it grosses you out. It's her body and she has the right to use it as she likes. Maybe if it came up in a conversation you could say something like "I just can't imagine sleeping with someone I barely know". But I don't think you would be out of line in saying something like "I hope you made him wear a condom".
2007-02-11 21:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Justin H 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, but I know someone who did some fisting on a sex date.
2007-02-12 00:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wooww!!!hold your american horses here! SEX ON A 1ST DATE is a geat way of finding out if the guy is worth a second date or not!
2007-02-11 23:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by florence 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cannot think of similar situation.
However consider your friendship first. We all make mistakes, do not rush judging your friend. Talk with her, open your heart & accept her for who she is.
2007-02-11 21:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont know anyone - well maybe I do but they sure haven't admitted to it out loud! I agree - but I think your friend obviousl has self esteem issues if she lets guys treat her like that, so see it where its coming from.
2007-02-11 21:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Let her do what she wants. Will it do any good to tell her what you think of her? Probably not.
2007-02-11 21:41:59 · answer #11 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋