I have recieved a new assement from child support. The assessment period for 1st September 2005 to 31 August 2006 and 1st September 2006 to 30 November 2007. The monthly amounts are now higher, then when I orginally recieved the assessments. I am now thinking of going my exhusband for reimbursement of this outstanding money. I will first approach him with all the documents I have.I have been in touch with CSA and centrelink and either way I am still better off, with him paying me the back money. If he wont pay I'm thinking of suing him for the money. There is fair bit of money that I would be recieving . Has anyone been through this and what was the out come.
2007-02-11 21:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by chestersocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, out of all information I have received nothink has be helpful. Child support can only go 3 month worth of supportand Im owed over 18month worth of Child support. For starters he is the one who left me. Im the one who has to pay for everything to do with the children even if he has got them ie babysitter while he work, medicine, any school activity that require money. He is the one who refuses to pay for anything, yes he may pay child support but not what I shouldbe getting.
Just because I am in another relationship has nothing to do with this. Yes I do put the money towards the children clothing, feeding and suppling medication for my daughter on a weekly basis,and any school activities and weekend sport they have, he doesn't pay for anythink like that. The money he gives for the children doesn't even cover for half the cost I have for them. So I think I will be suing him for the back pay in child support.
2007-02-12 16:27:20 · update #1
How about stop sucking the life out of the man. Just another bitter ex. Let your husband have his children 50% of the time and forget the money.
I read your other question... I guess you need the extra money to take care of the child you had out of wedlock with your shack up boyfriend. Getting a little jealous because your ex husband finally found a new woman.
You are living the life you made...enjoy
2007-02-11 21:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all due to a comment above mine ahem, dont think of it as "your money" think of it as your childs money. Use it to help him (and dont use the excuse that helping u is helping him). You've made out fine so far so if you do get a settlement, use it to put into a college fund or something beneficial solely to ur child. And yes, The childs father has a responsibility to provide for his child regardless of whether or not he is around. if it comes down to u having to sue him for the money, he is a sad man. Maybe you could set up a trust for your child and have him pay the defecit directly into that. Just a few ideas for you to toss around.
2007-02-12 05:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a bad idea. my boy friend owes back child support, but there is reason. He can't pay it. People just don't owe back child support for no reason. If you know that your ex has become much more financially well off than maybe, but I still suggest against. Me and boyfriend are trying to do things for ourselves, and if we were to pay off all the back child support we would be set back years. You have to have some consideration for his new life and/or family.
2007-02-12 11:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-25 16:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child-support agency should pursue this so you don't have to sue the ex husband for the money. They should collect it from him and then give to you.
I've had this situation happen only i was on the side of being the one to have to pay this to an ex. Just remember it's for the child not for going out and spending it on yourself.
2007-02-12 06:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful like someone else stated it's the child's money also your ex husband can ask for an accounting for what you spent or are spending the money on so hopefully you have kept receipts on everything or things can blow up in your face. Also remember you have to claim all this on your taxes while he deducts them from his.
2007-02-12 06:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your poor ex. He paid, now you want more, but he probably won't have it - supporting two households is hell.
So he will need to go into debt - then he will resent you even more. It is only fair that he gets a chance to budget for what he has to give you.
Let him know what has happened but don't ask for the difference, put it in the karma bank.
2007-02-12 05:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he owes the child money it is only fair that he pays it...
2007-02-12 05:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by tammie m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead.
2007-02-12 07:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooohhhh yes!!!
get your money!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 05:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by LaPalma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋