when we are having good days together we're fine and the best friends there could be but when we talk to someone she doen't like i have to not like them or she gets into a stop or when she knows some famous person and i have not a clue who they are she makes it out that i am stupid but when i do the same back to her she says no one kows that person and if they did no one would like them. i try to keep all her secrets in fact i have and yet she can't keep her mouth shut one second. when she was talking to someone about me i listened to see what she would say and she said the meanest things about me and then told me i did not trust her well look she is blind can't she see why i don't trust her but i have this longing to be with her when we are apart we will never fall out like this in a week but then there is a day where everything topples over and hits me right on the head. i need some help plz?
2007-02-11 21:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by Pastinie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMG my friend is so totally the same. I fell out with her not to long ago but she couldnt take being not friends. So we were friends again and she started to be a little nicer and taking me seriously for who i am. then it happened again so i fell out with her for 2 weeks. We became friends again and she became nicer. Since i was 11 she has been friends with me on and off. She absolutly hates and curses a really nice girl in my class but me and my other friends really like her but she can be a little annoying at times. Just talk to your friend over text message or email saying that your not happy with the friendship between you and you would like to improve. My friend is exactly the same as that. She talks about me behind my back, we have our good days together, we have out bad days, she hates people and makes be backstab them and make there life misrable when i want to be friends with everyone. She does so many things that would be effensive to you but inside her she wants to be best friends! Its just because she wants to be leader and centre of atention. Dont worry she will get the message if you ignore her or tell her by email or txt message. My friend certainly got it back in her face. Well i could tell you alot more but i would be making this message way to long so you can send me a message and i will recive it if you want to carry on talking. Bye xx
2007-02-11 21:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not on the same wavelength as you, you take friendship much more seriously. I'd advise you to stay friendly with this girl if you like her but not to be so dependent on her. Once you've managed to break away from her a bit and started to mix with other girls more, you may find a friend more deserving of your loyalty. I hope this works out for you, and in the meantime, if you want to share your secrets keep a personal diary instead of telling this girl, shes too much of a gossip
2007-02-12 05:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you both have a lot of growing up to do. You are both playing at friendship, i don't believe either of you know what being a friend really means. You are both in need of going your seperate ways and starting over.Real friends care about each other,would never lie or hurt each other and always look out for each other. They don't gossip about each other or throw hissy fits or steal each others guy or other friends.There are true friends and there are casual friends and then there are aquaintances. You need to decide where this person fits into your life and if she doesn't move on.
2007-02-12 05:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by jacqui w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a good person, dear. you need to simply cut your losses here. Just tell her honestly that you don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't respect you. She isn't good enough for you, you could do so much better. Good luck, I hope you find a better friend :)
2007-02-12 05:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds nothing like a friend. Friends trust each other. Why allow her to treat you lioke you her doormat? You deserve better friends, she sounds selfish.
2007-02-12 05:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really ur friend? She's a blabbermouth and u should stay away from her.
p.s pls. make the details more clear.
2007-02-12 05:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by abi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a very good friend to you.
2007-02-12 05:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think you have a friend here??
theres no friendship
wel-come
2007-02-12 05:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by wel-come 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control and keep her with you
2007-02-12 05:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋