Theres a girl in my class who has no friends + shes a freak but i dont no what to do because she has no mates?

Question

Shes small n fat n she can be nice yet annoying but i dont know what to do because its really mean not being nice. She can get very stressy at times but somethimes she can just play along with us and were just like ok then go away

Answer 1

I can remember High School myself and I was pretty much an outsider. it kinda sucked, because I literally did not fit in. I was from the North and they were from the South. I was altogether different from the rest. But that doesn't mean I couldn't be friends with people. she maybe shy/insecure because she feels the peer pressure. and usually when you feel that way, you stand out like a sore thumb. there were girls that got teased in my school because they were fat, and ugly and just plain nerdy. But I reached out to them because kids would knock the books out of their hands. I felt compassion because I was also in the same group. I wasn't nerdy just different and not accepted. it sucks not to be accepted by your peers. i kept to myself alot during those years and only talked to the ones who cared or dared to be my friends. And I'm happy to say, that those same friends still talk to me this day. They understand the pressure I was under.

Answer 2

I am in high school and I find what you said very disturbing. I mean, think about it from Morgan's perspective! She probably has no friends. She would be lucky to even have a friend problem . You on the other hand say you are popular. You HAVE a friend. Morgan probably looks up to you because she thinks your "cool" or something. Have you even given her a chance? Find something you have in common! Its hard to belive you don't have ANYTHING in common. By the way, I have gone through problems like this before. There were kids who would hand out with me because they had no friends. And I acepted them. Because of this I risked my reputation of being "cool". Now I'm not popular, or a geek. I just have alot of friends. Some of them turned out to be a really cool people after all. And the others, well, they just eventually found someone eles to hang out with. It just takes time. So maybe the kid will just find someone eles to be wih anyway. You never know. But what ever you do, don't just leave theem out in the cold. Have a heart, for goodness sakes!!!!!

Answer 3

Then what are you waiting for? There's no harm in trying to make things a little more different with the person you seem interested to. She seems harmless though, besides the fact that she can be easily stressed; but she could be fun otherwise. She must have reasons for being annoying at times. Why not discover it for yourself? Anyone could be easily stressed and be annoying anyway, and looks aren't everything. Maybe she isn't that bad after all. Try and see what'll happen.

Answer 4

She may get stressy because she feels like an outsider. Be friends with her and try to join her in with your other friends. You obviously are a nice person or you wouldn't worry about her enough to ask on here, so just show her that kindness.

Answer 5

When I ws at school, there was this little kid who hadn't grown properly- he was half our size. His hair was always like wire- unbrushed, he had snot crusted under his nose (cos no-one ever cleaned him up when he'd been crying) & he wore really thick glasses that made his eyes look HUGE!
Everyone ignored him.
One day, I saw coats moving in the cloak-room & when I looked, I saw him sitting behind the coats. He was hiding.
I realised then he was absolutely terrified.
I felt so sorry for him.
He went on to get all his exams with top marks
whilst the other (selfish) kids failed theirs because they had spent too much preening themselves...
so think on about your friend,
the way I still think about that poor little lad...
she can't help the shape she has
& ostracizing her because she looks different
is, quite frankly, shameful

Answer 6

Treat her the way you would like to be treated,Just remember,That when you grow into an adult there's a good possibility that you will be the outsider or freak as you put it.And I'm sure you would like to be treated with a little bit of respect and dignity.Basically,My dear,What I'm trying to say is,"What comes around goes around"!

Answer 7

First thing that came in my mind after listening to your problem is why don’t you become her friend? If you feel for her, if you can understand her feelings then you have to take the first step. Don’t keep in mind only one thing that she doesn’t have friends but instead go and be her friend. Looks do not matter when it comes to friendship. And if she is behaving off beat some time you have to handle the situation.

Answer 8

If you can,try to be her friend.Maybe she's a freak=as a way of trying to protect herself,if she's been hurt alot.(peoplpe want to stay away from the freak)But everyone needs to know they have even just one friend or someone in their life that cares.PLEASE don't give up easy.It will take time for her to trust that you really want to be a friend-not make fun of her ect.. Thank you for caring !!!!!

Answer 9

I have always regretted not being nicer to people like that when I was in school. Do what you can. If she has no friends it will mean everything to her, it could change her life.

Answer 10

i feel sad for that girl. just put yourself in her position and imagine how horrible it would be if you didnt have a friend to talk to. be her friend, she will love it. she will instantly feel a lot better. i've been thru this so i know how it feels. so what if she is fat, she must be a good girl.