Im a scorpio Female having a power struggle with my Leo bf?

Question

we do ok for about a month then we start getting hot like wanting to argue, i know that we arent compatible but i try so hard to make sacrifices, i even let him think he has a hold on me!! but of course with me being a Scorpio he doesnt.But sometimes i get tired of the fasad and my claws start coming out. weve been dating 2 years off and on mostly on and i want a true commitment i want him to give to me more, How can me a scorpio female accomplish this? i really love him deeply

Answer 1

I don't know what it is with you Scorpio's and your love of Leo's but I see this happen all the time.

Let me first say that the stars do not discriminate and you, as a Scorpio, can find love with any sign.

Secondly, I think that this is the time that you have a heart to heart conversation with him about the situation. When you do this you need to tell him you come to him with an open mind and heart. If you really want to continue this relationship, then you need to open up to him and tell him how you are feeling. I know that being a Scorpio, it's not that easy. This time you need to make the exception. A relationship is NOT about control, it's about give an take. There shouldn't be a facade to your relationship...that's not healthy.

Leo's LOVE the spolight and want to be the center of attention, this is why he thinks he's in control. The problem here is that once their pride is hurt, LOOK OUT! It will be so hard for them to trust you after that point, that things may not be recoverable. They also have a very quick temper.

Now as a Scorpio, you can be spiteful and emotionally manipulative. This is can't be good when it comes to a Leo because even though they like to act tough, they aren't. Scorpio's, like Leo's have a quick temper. This is because neither sign has any patience.

Both of you need to remember what's most important here...you love and trust for each other. If you want the commitment you are looking for, then you need to be a little patient with him and he is going to have to realize that he can't be this selfish.

One of my best friends was in a relationship with a Leo for a long time and went through a similar situation. She is a Scorpio and he is a Leo.

Good Luck, I hope you can turn things around!

Answer 2

Well being a Taurus I do not get well along with Leo guys but I have many Scorpio friends. One of them, she was dating a Leo guy for some time and she put him in the place he belongs to because he was too pushy..but that obviously izn't the case with you. Anyway, I should suggest you just to tell him what you want from him openly (I know Scorpios are not direct and they do everything with indirect meaning) but really try to say everything you need him to give you in a respectful conversation. Tell him you love him and try to settle the things out, just be sure to tell him you agree when you consider he is right because the Leo guys really need to be appreciated. Tell him that you respect him for the person he is and that you want to be respected in return and at last that you do not want only to talk about the problems but that you want to see a result from the talk. I really believe that if you two sit and talk without arguing, you will find the right way and you will give to each other as much as you receive from each other. I wish you luck and I hope for you the things will work out in the way you would like them to be!

Answer 3

Leo is a very strong sign to be with and understand. I'm a Sagittarius, and my boyfriend of 5 years is a Leo. We get along great, and he's actually the best boyfriend I have ever had. Were like best friends as well as soul mates. Our two signs balance each other out very well. Leos want to be boss no matter what so if you don't like this kind of thing then I don't think you should be with one. They also love the spotlight so if your the type that has to have it all the time as well then there's going to be problems. They love attention no matter where they are, and they expect much of it from their partners as well. They want to feel like their the king and queens of their castle, and believe me when I tell you they see their homes as their castles. Leos are also very warm, and generous. They are the most generous people out of all the signs. They can be very loyal and dedicated to the one they really love. They will do anything and everything for you if they love you. If you argue with a Leo, you will hear their roar and it's loud. Underneath everything their like little kittens. They can be sensitive at times. The key to making your Leo man happy is stroking his ego, and making him feel like he's important. Give him compliments all the time, and let him have the spotlight. If you can give him attention, compliments, and let him have the spotlight then you got him. It's the attention thing!!! I have a family full of Leos and I swear their all alike in many ways.

Answer 4

A Leo/Scorpio match is an intense union! you both understand each other’s needs and usually give the other one what they desire. your bf loves to be the center of attention and you have no problem with that – as long as you get the respect you deserve. Remember, you aren't called the “scorpion” for no reason! If you do not get what you need, your stubborn bf Leo could get stung! As long as you two keep the other’s needs in mind, you should work out just fine.

Answer 5

Well, Scorpios and Leos are very clashing, when getting into arguments it's like fighting fire with fire, the one thing that usually works for me and my fiance is that i back down and give him space, when he's ready , then we just talk about the problems instead of trying to yell them. Your going to have a power struggle only because both signs are leaders and dominant personalities. If you ever get into an argument, just have the both of you go into separate rooms (out on the town) to kool your heels before you discuss the problem. Plus pick one day out of the week (if your living together) to just have a night for yourselves. One person go do own thing and the other goes and does something else. It is just a matter of time to vent and have space, then everything will eventually balance out.

Answer 6

ok forget the BS approximately scorpio, and so on...locate out what the floor regulations are, is this a wreck in spending time at the same time or on your easily relationship. Do you the two get to be sure individuals, via fact if the latter is the case, maximum situations it is going to become an eternal wreck.

Answer 7

Very difficult...there are three of you in this relationship....you...your boyfriend... and... his Leo ego! I don't know what to say but I think deep down you know the answer anyway....good luck