So me and my boyfriend have had sex and all but i've never had an orgasim doing so, in fact my entire life i havent. We've tried all sorts of things and i am confused as of what to do because i'd really like to experiance one and make him feel better knowing he can please me....does anyone have an idea of what could be done or what i need to do or anything to achieve an orgasim...
2007-02-11 20:00:02 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we've tried everything from oral to actual intercourse and still nothing =/
2007-02-11 20:06:39 · update #1
Have him get a book or go online and learn about oral sex. Most men think they're really good at it, when in fact, they're not. For some women, that's the only way they can reach that point. Also, learn to relax and not focus so much on it; pretty soon it will happen. Good luck.
2007-02-11 20:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be hard for you to have an orgasm if you keep thinking that sex is only good if you have one. Not many women have an orgasm during sex, most experience them during foreplay. Look up sites on your computer and you and your partner read them and have fun trying the different methods. Good luck.
2007-02-12 04:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋