ask a man about marriage,he will say its no big deal!
What men need is someone to carry their second name,and bear them a bunch of healthy kids,is it true?
2007-02-11 19:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by wel-come 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
44 years ago I married my partner she still is. We have had the fights we have had the 4 kids we own the house we help others You see its all about us and its the us factor that keeps you going back for more .I can still make her laugh and she can me its all about communicating with us and if that's an institution put me there any time.
2007-02-11 20:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What really is marriage nowadays anyways? People take it so lightly and I'm not harping on anyone, I'm also one of those people who got married much too soon and too young thinking that everything would be perfect and we wouldn't ever change. So I can't point fingers or harp on anyone but I think everyone nowadays just takes marriage much too lightly (myself included). Marriage used to be such a big deal, at one point it wasn't even proper to get a divorce now it's like second nature. My mom's best friend it 45 years old and has been married five times, FIVE!!! Could you imagine that? I've been married once, divorced once and it's so emotionally draining I don't know how you could do it five times, all I know is the next time I say "I do" it's going to forever, cause divorce is such a horrible thing to go through, I don't think people realize it!! Some people carry around the card for there divorce lawyer in there pocket, I think that's horrible. I think all people, men and women should start taking the " I Do" much more seriously. It's more than just a last name or having a child it's got to be till death do you part, it's got to be love!
2007-02-11 20:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the biggest deal in town and should be treated that way. A man that looks at marriage as no big deal, is not ready for marriage to begin with, regardless of his age.
What men need, is a friend, a partner and a lover, in that order, someone to share his life with, to walk beside him, not behind, not always pregnant and who cares what her last name is. The important thing is that they totally and completely love each other, and if children are desired by both of them so be it. Men in general I believe feel that marriage is a very big deal...tvtop_toptv
2007-02-11 20:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Marsh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confident the corporation of marriage is synthetic and is definitely no longer ideal. human beings would desire to easily co-exist, then who takes the accountability for the infant ? the guy would desire to stroll out, as they're very irresponsibly, so society has imposed marriage to place some accountability on the guy, and doubtless additionally on the lady. this way toddlers additionally get a solid deal and a healthful atmosphere.
2016-11-03 05:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The institution was created by men to have certainty about the paternity of the proginy. If they r not bothered about it now, it will in any case disappear as marriage is more of a bondage.
2007-02-11 21:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly it marriage has become an institution instead of a relationship.
2007-02-11 22:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what your talking about, but the answer is no, women, that I have been involed with, and most the ones I know, are more likely to leave then men.
2007-02-11 20:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not true because many men don't care if you
take there last name. Some don't want alot kids
like they used to.
2007-02-11 20:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lawyers have made divorce a way of life. half a century ago, divorce was rare. today it is commonplace. that generalizes the problem. it is not just men divorcing. men and women are scared of marriage because of the divorce statistics.
2007-02-11 19:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's starts with the breakdown in family....are you someone's healthy kid?
2007-02-11 20:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋