This isn't the first time I have done this. Actually she is pregnant and the kid is definitely mine. He was out of town when this went on for over a month. His wife has offered money to me to keep my mouth shut and to continue "visiting" her when he is out of town. He isn't the only friend that I am doing this too. Does this mean that I'm a bad person, or only really good in the bed? Aren't most guys this way? I wouldn't call it being a gigolo or anything because those people have no remorse. But I am kind of sorry about getting my friend's wife pregnant. Howevers, I think the coast is clear. But do you think I'm a bad friend?
2007-02-11 19:30:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You would be a bad person, friend, etc. if this really happened. But I'm gonna have to call your b.s. on this one.
2007-02-11 19:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As of now you are a bad friend. It think it is rerehensible that your are having sex with his wife AND taking money to keep your mouth shut AND he is going to have a kid that he thinks is his. On top of that you are doing this to other friends wives? I'm sorry but you are not very good person in my mind. One thing you should never do is cheat on a friend behind his back. I think that you can redeem yourself by telling him and your other f riends, you may not be friends anymore after that, but at least you will have a clear consience and hopefully from then on try to avoid such situations. The wife is worse however. Why did she marry him if this was going to happen? Maybe there are problems at home, I don't know, but she could of at least gotten a divorce. The wife, or shall we say wives, are all horrible people. If they wanted different partners why did they get married in the first place. Idiots.
2007-02-11 19:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to fess up for the childs sake. It is cruel for her husband to think that this child is his and then to find out one day which he will that he is your child. Not only that there is the child to think about.
You will lose your friend as she will more than likely lose her husband, then rather than go behind peoples backs why don't you both get together. You can raise your child together and she will no longer be lonley and you don't have to sneak around.
You are terrible because it is not the first time and not the only person. They are not your friends because if they were you wouldn't be doing this all of the time. You need to come clean. Expect a few punches being thrown your way. You will get over it, what about the hurt you are causing others, that will hurt them alot more.
2007-02-11 19:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's horrid, don't worry about the wife and the friend. Think of the child for heavens sake. How will it feel growing up in a marriage such as that, with a man that isn't even it's father?
2007-02-11 19:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't from now on a nasty individual. If it is purely celebrities it is high-quality, it is compared to you're obsessing over someone you fairly recognize, that would nicely be more beneficial odd. although if it occurs each and every time...if it does, that ought to indicate a difficulty in case you had to no longer imagine about him to get off. in case you imagine the sex is uninteresting, you ought to attempt diverse issues to make it more beneficial exciting, verify with him about it etc.
2016-11-27 03:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a hideous friend. On top of that, you are now bringing another life into this mess. Get a conscience and stop pulling this crap before someone finds out and comes after you with a shotgun. Remember, what goes around, comes around. And when it does, you're screwed.
And, no, most guys are not this way.
2007-02-11 19:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by stseukn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this same question about six times in the past hour. Either you're lying or you're telling the truth (in that case you're a terrible friend). Just admit you're doing this for attention. By the way, nobody's going to give you a "thumbs up" on this one, buddy, so stop asking.
2007-02-11 19:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad man.
In fact you are not a Man but dog who does sex with his mother itself i.e. no feeling of relation.
Imagine .your friend's wife give birth to a daughter ( who is yours ) & she has all bad habits of yours means she is also family killer ,how you will enjoy to this ,& if like her mother she invites you on her bed what will be your situation.will you do with your daughter ,either you will tell her the truth or what ?
we all are having some boundries ,we have to houner this
2007-02-11 19:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by sk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think you can answer that yourself. You are betraying your best friend's trust... sleeping with his wife... and now she is pregnant with your child... and you apparently don't have any notion of informing him of this...
I'd either fess-up or just get the crap away from him... that's a low, dirty thing to do to your best friend.
2007-02-11 19:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Dragon Rider ™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you, honestly, think that you are a good friend?!!!
Are you married? How ould you feel if this happened to you? Enjoy it? Still be friended with your "friend"?
Your answers to these questions should provide you with more appropriate answer to your question above.
Incidentally, you have raised this question elswhere on several times! What is your game?!!
2007-02-11 19:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋