i love him a lot and we are missing each other. i seen my friends flirting and sleeping with other men. i want to wait for him. where else my friends are laughing at me, for being so committed and dedicated. what do i do?
2007-02-11 19:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well what do you mean how to reamin loyal to your husband are you considering cheating! I'm not being rude or anything but it doesnt mean you life has to end and you have to stay at home and all that it just means you shouldnt get involved with another man. I know it seems like forever and all believe me i know my husbands in the army. Our first year of the marrage we spent a whole 2 months together that wasnt at the same time a few weeks here and a few weeks there. Anyways i know its tuff. You miss him like crazy but hey im sure at some point he will have access to a computer and you can email each other or buy web cams i know its not the real deal but it helps alot to see him. I would like to talk to you more if you are willing to you can email me please feel free to.
2007-02-11 19:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a military situation, then I'm curious to know why you're not in Japan with him...
As far as your question goes, there is absolutely NOTHING to be ashamed about when it comes to being faithful to your spouse. Your friends clearly have no respect for themselves or for their partners and that needs to remain their problem. Don't allow their cold and irresponsible behavior to effect how you are as a person and spouse.
Not to be too personal, but consider adult toys. If you're embarrassed about the idea, then try looking on some websites. Almost all adult-toy stores ship their products in very plain, brown boxes with zero evidence of what's inside. Adam & Eve is a very popular site and when they ship their products directly to you, it comes in a brown box that says "AE Mail" as the return address. Nothing more, nothing less. No one will ever know. It even says "AE Mail" on your credit card bill, so even your payment options are private!
Just try to think about how you'd feel if your husband cheated on you. Keep your head up, I've been in your shoes and it sucks, but at the end of the day, knowing I've remained faithful to my husband is worth far more than the women out there cheating on their husbands (or the husbands cheating on their wives).
2007-02-12 03:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have the last laugh because you have shown that your love is strong
2007-02-12 03:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by timm4u2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing what you're doing... those friends of yours can go out and sleep with other men and pick up all those funky std's... stay faithful, go to church...
2007-02-12 03:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by michael_coloma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to Japan to live with him? Anyway, do not quit.
2007-02-12 03:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Me Here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a tough road ahead of you. Pray about it.
2007-02-12 03:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋