2007-02-11 18:57:24 · 10 answers · asked by God sent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People are multi-layered. Everyone has surprises and everyone surprises themselves. Life is too complex for anyone to be so simple. Are you what people take you for? Probably not because everyone you meet will have a different opinion of you based on their experiences. If you are projecting qualities onto others, they will never be what you think. But just because a person turns out different, doesn't mean they aren't good. Everyone has good and bad. Gotta go with the flow and let them surprise you... some might be surprisingly good if you give it a chance.
2007-02-11 19:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people tend to act differently when we meet people for the first time. I guess it's part of our culture to be polite when we meet people and that involves not exposing our true selves to much. Doing so might be considered arrogant and,therefore, rude.
Don't forget people are complicated human organisms. It's only natural that it would take time to come to know someone's personality instead of presuming to know it early on.
2007-02-12 03:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by roger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason one should not judge a book by it cover. Regardless of how many covers such a book may have.
2007-02-12 03:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by LiberT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't people just take you for what your are?
2007-02-12 03:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz insan k hazaro chehre hote hain n hume 1 waqt mein bas 1 hi dikhai deta hai to galti unki nai hamari hai jo hum unke 1 chehre ko hi sahi man lete hai.....got it...try n be more open with othrs
2007-02-12 03:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To know and understand the people who are your friend and others who are not.
2007-02-12 05:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rajesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make life too simple!
2007-02-12 03:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's life ...welcome to thsi big bad world where people wear different masks on their faces. You need to have the right eye !!
2007-02-12 06:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Software_pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its their problem
2007-02-12 03:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could answer that...i really do.... good luck with that one
2007-02-12 03:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by random cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋