were a great cupple marred over 10 yrs looking to adopt?

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hello please for give the spelling errors as its late and once again I up thinking about wanting to adopt a baby.We are a cupple who have osum Careers for the state we live in a nice home well be moveing to in april in the country side.We have a wonderfull family but our hearts are aching to be parents again.We adopted our daughter from foster care who has mild disablitys and is doing great 4 yrs ago but the foster care system broke our hearts when a baby girl we rased from 3 month to 3yrs was suddenly given back to the birth mother after they told us we could adopt her.We dont think we want to be foster parents agin after that.We would like to have a open adoption but agencys fees are so high who could pay 30,0000 with out getting in debt threw the nose.We set up a websight www.family4urbaby.com for birthmothers to look at and be able to contact us but have had a hard time getting it to those women who are looking for great parents for their child.If you or some one you know would be

Lets add a little here...We do have an attorny.We are not looking to BUY a baby.Thats one of the issues we have with an agency the major cost dont go to the birth mother for her support or councling.I am college educated and have a career ,work for the state.I do have a learning disablity I bleve I have come to deal with its simmler to dislexia.I currently working on my batchlers degree.I usualy use spell check ect but on my time I typicaly choose not to use it.Saying a person like my self wouldnt make a good mother is like saying a mother in a wheel chair wouldnt be a good parent.A disablity rarly has anything to do with parenting.WE are alreddy adoptive parents of alittle girl who is devolmentaly disable.She is doing wonderfully and has shocked everyone with her progress,she is currently half day regular school and half day resorce classes.She is 8yr old but fuctions arround age 6.As far as putting our info on line or yahoo its called net working.Looking for people to lisson ,underst

stand and possably have insight to an answer.I think becouse we are looking for a baby to adopt some people who dont understand adoption think we are eather trying to buy a baby(untrue) or morons looking for some one to just give us a baby.To state it quight clearly.We are hungry with aching hearts to be parents and love a child and their is a child out their some where who needs a loveing family and a secure life.We are willing to cover all legal fees and support the birth mother fully to include liveing exspences and councling befor and after the adoption and an ongoning relanship with the mother.

Answer 1

Your story is so sad. I hope you get what you deserve, which is a wonderful happy family.

Good luck to you and your husband.

=)

Answer 2

I think that you sound like really nice people, and I'm sure that you would make great parents. However while advertising that you would like to adopt someones baby, maybe try taking a more professional approach. For example as a pregnant mother myself, when I see your message with the spelling errors I would be very hesitant to consider you for adoptive parents. I don't mean to be rude in any way but I mean honestly, mothers even in the case of wanting to give up their babies still look for the most promising and beneficial enviroment . Seeing that you have trouble spelling moving and through is a little disconcerning in regard to how a child would be raised in a educational home. I really don't mean to be discouraging but I'm sure you might have better odds if perhaps there was a little more time and effort put into your attempts.

Answer 3

Lutheran soical services...my sister only paid 7,000 nine years ago. My sister took her right out the hospital after 3 days. She hasnt had any probs with the adoption since. I know they go up yearly and it depends on the race of the child you are looking for. It is a quicker and cheaper process for minority babies. Good luck to you both...

PS as for the wait my sister waited 4 months I believe

Answer 4

Hello there, Wow... I just thought that I admire what you are doing. I am a mother of four and we are looking itno adopting a little girl from China.
We went there. It is terrible. Hundreds of dirty metal cots. Little girls who do not know how to cry because that they do or not, no-one will come to them. It broke my heart.
So many children who are alredy there, on this earth, who needs love, hugs, protection.
Awsome! Good luck to you!!!
Love :O))

Answer 5

I'm sorry to hear that.keep asking on yahoo you would be surprised how many people come on here wanting to adopt out there baby.who knows you might save one from being aborted.

Answer 6

I suggest you learn how to spell because you're going to have to at least APPEAR to be educated in order to adopt a child either through an agency or lawyer. Any other way here in the U.S. is illegal since it is no more than brokering (selling) babies and that's a federal offense here in the U.S.

Answer 7

you say that you have great jobs, but can't afford the fees? anyway, look around at other agencies. i, for one, would not want to give my child to someone i met on yahoo answers. your heart is good, but you are in the wrong place. you don't know who you could meet on here! (such as the person who answered first).

Answer 8

not trying to be rude or anything........but work on the spelling next time........cupple and marred? c'mon

Answer 9

No offense, but I don't think anyone is just going to give you their baby just because you say you want one.

Answer 10

Maybe you could find some single teenage mothers.