14............?

Question

My names samantha and i am 14 years old. most people my age have role models such as jessica alba, kirsten dunst, or any other celebrities they think are "hot" or "beautiful". But to me.... i feel like i cant really relate to anyone else. i dont even want to tell friends about what i want to be or my role models, because well... its not "suitable for my age". Well i am sick of it. I admire the Girls Next Door and the Playboy Models sooo much. When I turn 18 or 21 or however old you have to be to get into the magazine i want to get into it!! I would love having people admiring my looks and personality. Any suggestions of how to say it or like i dont know to live up one of my dreams?

Answer 1

Check out MTV Made programe...I think you can learn more in that program. Y not be your own role model instead of following others. Don't have that low self-esteem in you. Throw it as its harmful to you. Cheers.

Answer 2

Hey, I am 16 and ever since I was 13 I was just like you! So many of my friends would look up to people who weren't like that, but I would see women on Playboy magazine covers and I would think about how I wanted to be so much like them, and I admired them so much. I LOVE THE GIRLS NEXT DOOR. Its my favorite show! Kendra is my favorite and I admire her. All you have to do is when you are 18, send some pictures and hope that you make it. Also, Holly, Bridget, and Kendra were really no-body's and they went to a Playboy party and got noticed. I am going to do it when I am 18, and you should too! You should tell your friends and just like if you see a picture of the girls then say " oh she is so pretty" and just see what her reaction is. Just make little hints like that. And for suggestions, I would just try to stay fit and healthy and be a generally nice person cause the girls are nice. Have a god personailtity and it will get you far.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

Im 14 ^_^ and I like kendra she is funny. I think you should have who ever you want to role model because its you not anyone else. Do what makes you...well you! Really no one likes my role model as my role model because well...this person has problems but I admire their mind most of all and I can relate to them either through what they have done,thought,felt and etc. so and I wish you the best of luck with your Magz :)

Answer 4

You can do anything you put your mind to. As far as "not suitable for your age" goes, 18 is the magic number when it comes to posing for such magazines...so in the mean time, keep eating your Wheaties, keep working out and keep your dream alive!!!

Answer 5

I think you should follow your dream, i am 14 also and my role model is a supermodel and her name is Heidi Klum and my biggest dream is to become a victorias secret model, and i think we could make both of our dream come true if we try hard and not ever give up no matter what people say.

Answer 6

So Cal ba. Hi. You sound like an Indigo Child,Welcome to earth. Where do I start? You are a girl and at fourteen are between what I call the povit years. Twelve and eighteen are povit years in your ageing towards woman hood. You are a living body and are an early 90's birth. So by 2012 you will be twenty and at an age wher your body hs changed along with your ideas. However, you are different to the average girl in that you know where you are going with the body form you have. Most fourteen yolds are a bit shy of exposing there form, but that form you have, is a tool for the spirit within you to work with. The spirit that is you chose your parents to come onto the world and they were the right people for you. You ability to express youself in aindicator of that. But hey, even parents find it hard to tell each other secrets, it's called being human. There are two forms on this earth Female and Male. The female bofy form is a different species of human life and is here as a hife supporter, her body vibrates at a higher frequency and she is in tune with living life. There are many safety devices built into her form,like knowing when someone is looking at you when you walk though the mall or along the deserted street. I was standing behind a fence near a resaruate one night in the dark and watched as a groupe of people were eating and enjoying their social metting over a meal. Two women who were women I'd liked to have married got my full attention and within seconds of thinking woman A was beyounf this earth in beauty, she looked straight at me. I was of course not seen but her safety device senced I was thinking of her. A magic that woman have from birth. Don't lose it. Guys are of a lesser form and species than woma, they exist in life and those guys who are of the higher frequency and arethe types that women like, are a tonic to a woman and in time, they becoes like Osmocote to a plant. each body thrives on the other and they age in love well into their ninties or more. Most guys fail though and devoice follows, usually after the chiuldren are born, they got together so the children could come through those parents. Mothers are special and lend naturally to helping the children grown into the world towards their own adult years. Now whereas woman are life orientated, guys are sex orientated. Women can get a phantasy by simply touching and thinking, guys their poor brains need to be fed images and so they run out of ideas and hit the magazines for more fresh forms to think about. The modle mags are a venue for that food. Now being a form that you are with the knowedge of being between the covers of those magazined means you are a healer. Some women heal by slepping with women who have been hurt by a guy, others take up nursing and teaching while others present their form for others to see without being that close that touching is natural. Women's healing is like this. When you haven't see your mom for a couple of weeks and you come home. the first thing you do is give her a hug, You feel really good and uplifted. Well you can not buy women's self esteem in a bottle over the counter at the chemist can you. It only comes from women. Moms are like a computer and you are the floppy disk they make. Your floppy disk can only wortk in the computer that made you. that's why she's a mum. You will present manywith your form and excite many who see you. Don't evey feel guilty about the form you were born with, it is yours and how you think about it is how it will feel about you. Like and Love yourself and you body will feel loved and remain healthy. To get into the mags from your age, think about it now. Feed your passion with the dream knowing that dreasm become reality. Tell the Universe that you are a modle in magazines and past pictures of youself into Magazines now, replace those wome who are there with your own image, make the future a reality for yourself by telling it what you want and go for it, You were born to be you and you'll be happist when you go to your gave as an old woma knowing that you have left this world with the images and memories of who you were. Spirit will look back onto the earth and feel over the moon that you ideas now became reality through your hard work and determination. Enjoy the future, go and get as it is waiting there for you to catch up to it. Enjoy. Dave

Answer 7

Stay fit, stay true to yourself, talk with your folks about your aspirations and your pride in being female.

Remember also, that all physical beauty is fleeting - Gravity and time have their way with us all. True beauty is on the inside.

That being said, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your goals or your dreams. Good luck!

Orion

Answer 8

I don't no anithing about how to get into tht business but i think itz really cool that you don't just follow the crowd! Whateva u end up doing - good luck!

Answer 9

Have some professional photos taken when you turn 18. Good luck to you.

Answer 10

im 13. i can see what ur going with this, my role model is tyra banks, but its good u like to be the center of attention, but sometimes even for myself, even though i watch it sometimes, i still think ur too young! but good luck with that...