inside tells me sometimes to find someone else and get back into it again. i think that i aged a few more years than i should with the hell of being married, and then single again. then read on this answer page of people with worst problems than I, and i should be so lucky. my heart is still looking and wandering for someone. anyhow enought about me, what are your thoughts?
2007-02-11 18:36:23 · 16 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you find the right person you will know. It is when you are not looking that someone comes up and blows you away. As for the people with problems bigger then yours do not sell yourself short. What is a big problem to one person may be nothing to someone else. It is a problem for you if you feel it is. Do not let others lifes effect how you feel about your own. You are your own person and ultimitly you are the one that you have to live with single or married.
2007-02-11 18:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married
2016-05-24 00:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. lt's your thoughts and you are entitled to them. When your heart finds the right person it will let you know. Until then just enjoy being single and free, nothing wrong with that. Don't just jump into any relationship for the hell of it, be a little more cautious and hopefully you will meet the right person next time. l wish you lots of happiness and luck, take care .
2007-02-11 18:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL no yer not insane... I've been there too 1 marriage at age 32.. that pretty much cured me of that bit. There are ocassions i get those feelings of being alone etc but they soon pass (particularily when I remeber the marriage) and ya know what? being single isnt so bad to tell the truth.. in fact its not bad at all.. particularly since I retired at age 37.. i do what i want, when i want.. and it dosent matter if i get up early or late or drink too much ot leave the toilet seat down...
and I have my pomerainian Dog for companionship.. and he dosent b*itch at all about anything.. what more could i ask?
Oh what about sex some of you may ask? Oh i can get that anywhere anyway.. but truth is i'm better than any chick i've ever had anyway... not really an issue LOL
2007-02-11 18:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be open to love but not seek it. Its always nice to know you have someone to turn to when you need someone to be there and ultimately I dont think that man was made to dwell alone on this earth. I wont say do or dont get new love, instead would say know what kinda love you want, have in mind the woman that would make you happy then its easier to know what it is that you dont want in a woman. That way you wont make the same mistake twice.
2007-02-11 18:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'll trade with you right now. Stay single, unless you find Ms.
perfect. and I mean real nice personality etc. And then still don't get married. once the ring is on it seems they change for the worse.
2007-02-11 18:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with your feelings on that. I have been married for 25 years, have had some wonderful times and some really rotten times..if anything like divorce or death were to happen..I would not get married again. it has been pretty good but once is enough for me *LOL*
2007-02-11 18:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends upon what kind of pain you experienced in your past relationships.
Most women are predisposed to a long term relationship. I'm not saying you can't find women out there who might feel as you do, but the majority of them prefer a relationship.
2007-02-12 00:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going in and out of relationships is tiring. Going in and out of marriage is devastating and exhausting.
My thoughts: Read some literature on family therapy. An example would be Lawson and Prevatt's "Casebook in Family Therapy". It's an excellent book that psychologists and social workers read to get an idea of how to work with troubled families and, to be sure, learning how future therapists try to conceptualize dysfunctional relationships can be just as effective as actually paying to go receive that therapy.
Understanding what voids we're unconsciously trying to fill and what needs we're unable to meet for ourselves while we search for truly suitable partners is something that might shed a lot of light on this issue for you.
2007-02-11 18:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i been married 4- times divorced twice widow once now im seprated three i picked wrong drunks my third husband was good to me but he had heart failer and passed away he was a deacon of the church i belonged too im seprated now he stayed drunk and abusive then i heard he cheated so i have bad luck too i don't know if its me i think its him hes a alcoholic i guess were both f up
2007-02-15 12:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋