Not friends anymore?

Question

How would you feel if someone you'd felt that you had built a friendship with just stopped communicating with you out of the blue for no given reason?

Answer 1

I've had it happen to me. You just have to remember that there are some people who will stick with you and those who won't. The thing that made it worst was the fact that I had a great number of my friends turn their backs on me after I was nearly killed by a drunk driver. While I was in a coma my wife took off her ring and told the true friends who stuck around that she had too much going for her to stick around. That hurt the most, but the false friends who stuck around mostly wanted to steal money from me because at the time, I was blind. Some friends simply forget to call and that may be the case for you, but then again there are some that simply do not have any regard for friendship unless it benefits them at the current moment. Either way, I have made more true friends since this time and am now engaged to a much better woman. In closing, you can't dwell on the actions of a few bad apples because there still are good people out there.

Answer 2

That happened to me, my supposedly best friend just kinda dropped me but you know what I found new friends and I saw her again this year because she's in one of my classes and she is really mean and stuff so I'm really glad that I got new friends because in the end she was just holding me back. I know have a huge group of people so the best thing to do is move on and find some new friends because you can't just wait for them to come back.

Answer 3

It wouldn't feel good, I would wonder why and what could I have done to offend that person. I wouldn't deliberately want to hurt or offend anyone. My intent is to live in peace.

I know that sometimes people need to do what they need to do for themselves. It isn't always about me and if I did anything wrong. They should let me know so I have a chance to rectify it and understand any offense. But that may never happen. They may just need to be alone or they might be going in a different direction. And that is ok. Sometimes you are only passing thru someones life or they thru yours. It's just nice being able to find out what happened.

Go slow and calmly to find out what happened, and if they won't tell you put it to the side for now and try not to focus on it. Sometimes time has a way of softening the issue and the offense may become a forgotten moment.

I feel for you... Good Luck

Answer 4

that happened to me in fifth grade [last year], I had 2 best friends, and I hated how they always liked each other better than me, and one day during school, I hung out with 2 different people that day, they didn't talk to me the rest of the day, til the end, when my friends said she wanted the friendship necklace she gave me, because "I back-stabbed her". I would cry everyday, I called them up, and said that I didn't mean to back-stab them in whatever way I did. They decided to be my friend again. The next day at school, theywouldn't look at me, and when they did they gave me the "stink eye" [what we say in Maui, it means kinda like squinting your eye, and kinda like rolling you eyes, a mean look] so I stayed away from them for 3 days, then my friends asked them if they liked me. They told her that they wanted to be my friend do that they could back-stab me like I did to them. I didn't talk to them until 6th grade, I would talk to the other girl, Kela{pronounced Kayla}, but Jill would always get mad at Kela for talking to me. They replaced me with a girl named Kaitlyn, then Kela went on a cruise for the week, and Jill invited me to the fair, then once Kela came back, she stopped talking to me. Now they talk to me, but we aren't best friends like we used to be. I don't hang out with them much, because they still choose each other over me, they don't seem to get mad at me when I hang out with other people now, but I'm glad it happened, cause it seemed like I was always getting into trouble when I hung out with them.


to answer your question: I cried for days, I also kept on asking what was the matter

something good did come out from it, just try to find the good in what happened {if anything did happen}

Answer 5

i would say forget u and get on with my life

Answer 6

a little sad