Question for Women. Why are you so complicated.?

Question

I am not gonna explain my question because you know what i am talking about. Please be very detailed about why you choose to be so complicated especially to your male counterparts.

Answer 1

Women are not complicated, men are too SIMPLE!

Answer 2

I do agree that sometimes women can be difficult on purpose. But for the most part I do not think that women are complicated I think that we are misunderstood. That goes both ways men are complicated to women as well, but once again it is beyond that it is misunderstanding and that stems from lack of communication or ineffective communication. Women have a problem clarifying what they want or need and how they want it. Women expect men to be mind readers and they can not so women need to just say what they mean instead of saying " you know why I am mad" yeah right sometimes men do not know why women are mad. That is what my boyfriend tells me and after thinking it through I tend to agree. It is also in the way you say things, if you come off with an attitude then you will get it back that goes both ways. The more attention you pay to a behavior the more it will be repeated. I also believe that the more you focus on the positive the more your relationship will be more productive.

Answer 3

I don't think we "choose" to be complicated we just are. Women are more emotional than men and we tend to think of things on an emotional level. While most men will just look for a solution to a problem, we want a solution that makes us feel better about the situation. We can't always explain to men what we are feeling or how a situation makes us feel because at times it is like women and men speak completely different languages. It's not really that we are complicated, our friends understand us and what makes us tick the disconnect only comes when we are dealing with the opposite sex.

Answer 4

The wording in your question implies that you have hard feelings against a particular woman, or women, for some specific reason. You feel she CHOOSES to be "complicated" or difficult. That may be so.

Why she does it???? I'm not a doctor or therapist or anything but my guess is, because she's INSECURE.

And I might add, that MOST of our female upsets, although based on our hormones which we can't control, really boil down to our own insecurities. If my boyfriend says that I look nice today, and because I'm feeling insecure, I might take it to mean that I didn't look nice yesterday. Get it?

So the way a woman might act, or react, to a given situation, is never really predictable. It depends on the hormones. IT'S SCIENTIFIC.

If she's feeling especially sensitive on a certain day, then her insecurities combined with that will culminate in irrational behavior.

If her hormones are fine and she's not as sensitive on a certain day, then her insecurities won't have as much of an impact.

So the conclusion of my speech is: Women are just more sensitive then men, but it's our INSECURITIES combined with the up and down hormones, that fuel the negative reactions we have.

BOTH men AND women benefit by applying the advice in the Bible, to "not be in a hurry to take offense". Women who apply this find themselves not freaking out irrationally as much, and men who do this find it easier not to take the women's irrational behavior personally.

Answer 5

Men are just too simple, so we women come off as being complicated. First of all women have a fluctuating range of horomones because they get their periods, and they get pregnant. This causes different feelings, irritability, and makes us more attuned to listen to our bodies. Women also have more neural connectors between their limbic brain and the prefrontal cortex than men do. The prefrontal cortex is also called the thinking brain. It is an area of the brain that causes us to think critically about our lives, to figure things out, to per-severe, control our impulses, to learn from our experiences, express our emotions, and to feel empathy for those less fortunate.All of this means that women are wired to think in a way that men aren't. I have also heard and read that women have more nerve endings in their skin, which means they are much more sensitive to touch than men are. This makes women an entirely different creature than men, and thus we are more complicated.

Answer 6

It would be easier to answer your question if you elaborated a bit but I'll try anyhow. I think the reason many men find the women they're in relationships with to be complicated is simply because we expect the person we're with to pay attention and try to understand us and, in certain situations, when they don't we become disappointed. Disappointment can lead to sadness, sadness to anger, anger to wondering what we are even doing in the relationship, yaddayaddayadda. Now, this can be confusing to the other person in the relationship cause they're still at point A while we're busy going through the alphabet and wondering if our efforts are worth it.

Answer 7

They aren't that complicated. That's your perception because you desire them so much. You probably over analyze everything they say. What they do have that men really don't have besides a _enis is they have lots of options. They make us jump through hoops as a test. Instead of just saying what they have to say. Lets see who is in this for the long haul and who isn't? When you have the options they have, you need to be selective, in Theory. . I think that is faulty wiring. I have known several females who (played games) had men jump through hoops, so, these guys just moved on and the men these women got stuck with turned out to be Married, drug addicts, abusive, lazy.

Answer 8

Like men, women are different from eachother. The complication exists because we want an easy 1-size-fits-all answer. That isn't realistic. We get to learn each and every person individually.

Yep, complicated.

Live well

Answer 9

We have to understand that men and women think in entirely different ways|

It is almost as if they live in two different universes|

This is the cause of much misunderstanding|


For example, men are *facts* oriented| They just tell the literal truth as they see it|

Women are *meaning* oriented| They perceive the meaning in what is said|

So a man may tell a woman what he thinks is a literal truth (and often thinking he is simply giving objective advice to help her), and to his surprise, she runs off crying| He asks: "What did I do? What did I do? And honestly he does not|

What has happened is the woman has percieved a meaning in the message that she thought that the man was deliberately communicating, as she assumed that the man thinks the same way she does|

The man thought that the woman simply heard the message as he intended it| So he doesn't know what happened there|

You see the reason for misunderstanding between the sexes when it comes to communications|


Often too, a woman will really like a guy, but she will play "hide and seek" to see if he is really determined to get her| What the man will often do is take that as rejection and give up|

Again, that misunderstanding is the result of how men and women think and perceive reality totally differently|


But it is union in difference that makes for the ultimate happiness when it is achieved|




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Answer 10

We're not! Some women lie a lot though and play games, but I've never really done that n there are many more women who don't subscribe to manipulation...