I am married and want to be a stripper. I am hot and in great shape(not to be conseded). I know I could make alot of money for my husband and I. I have talked about it alot with him and he is fine with it. I am very faithful and have no desire for anyone else I just want to make us alot of cash.. I just wanted to get some outside opinions, what do you think, will this work out?
2007-02-11 17:42:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are married to a very secure man it might work. Try not to get involved with the rest of the b.s that tends to go along with it (i.e; drugs) but as long as your man is as secure as he seems to be you should be ok
2007-02-11 17:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your man is okay with it, then why not..It will pay your bills and put food on the table plus you will have more $$$ for yourself..Just be careful, you have things like drugs,prostitution, and crazy men at your fingertips. Most of those girls are on some type of drugs because there is no way they can touch or be all up on some gross looking man while sober,,So drugs will most definitley be pushed in your face.. And we all know what drugs will do to a persons morals..I knew a friend of a friend that had four guys follow her home and they raped her, since she was a stripper the law couldn't care less and eventually she just let it go..I also heard of women who let the money make them instead of it being the other way around..They got so crazy over their jobs that they would sabatoge other dancers that were making more money..They would also get so addicted to the money that they would make "deals" with their clients after work, or show up as the ONLY stripper at a private party full of men because they wanted all the money to themselves..Be careful its not nearly as glamourous as it might seem on the outside.I think you should only be doing it if you are in desperate need of money, only go there if you just have to
2007-02-11 18:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not. This is a terrible idea. If you want to earn alot of money for your family let your husband go and prostitute himself if he has no problem with it. I am joking. Does he really love you if he would allow you to do this? I wonder. Are you saying he doesn't make enough money? Aside from the immorality of it, your husband may say that he has no problem with it but things will change. You say that you want to be a stripper? Because you have a "hot" body. This is just pride. You should be ashamed of these thoughts. God knows all things. Is this how you were raised? Is this worth your eternal salvation? It will only work out if you desire hell otherwise, no. Don't do it.
2007-02-11 17:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by jpslappey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether your husband is fine with it NOW or not it's not a good idea. Stripping isn't as galmours as the media makes it out to be. You have men pawing you all the time, grabbing every part of your body, making lewd remarks to you and totally disrespecting you...How is your husband going to feel knowing other men are grabbing you, fondling you? Yeah he's okay with the money but what about the rest of it? You say that YOU have no desire for anyone else...that doesn't mean that anyone else isn't going to have a desire for you and strippers tend to be among the highest numbers when it comes to rape victims...especially when they brush off the wrong man's advances. Strippers don't get to pick and choose the clientel of the establishments they strip in and most strip clubs don't care as long as the money is coming in. Think of this...there will be guys grabbing your *** and making remarks about your body who are your father's age or older? Now think, would you WANT your grandfather grabbing your butt and saying how much he would like to "pack some fudge?" Because THAT is what strippers hear on a regular basis...from guys old enough to be their grandfater's. Is your husband going to be okay with that?
2007-02-11 17:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl who was alot like you. She was sweet and married to a friend of mine. However, she began doing hard drugs when she took on the stripping jobs and she began going out with the club manager. Granted, this place was a rat's nest and you are probably not wanting to work in a hole in the wall, but you should consider what you will think when other men (rowdy ones) are groping you. Personally, I wouldn't disagree with your plan as long as it is okay with both you and your husband. If you are both okay with it and you avoid suspicious drinks bought for you, you should be fine.
2007-02-11 18:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a bad idea. Your husband should be ashamed of himself for allowing other men to drool over what you are allowing them to lust over. No it will never work. He would get insecure. Find another job. You can't tell me this is all that you can do to make money. College would be a better idea!!! Both of you guys should be ashamed. Why be married just to have someone else rub on you? Or you don't do lap dances. Have some self dignity....
2007-02-11 18:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. Yes, you are a faithful wife, but having all those guys lear at you, and possibly make lewd remarks about you, and your body---yuck! The money might be good-but the people who go to those places-are usually decent guys, married, single, etc. But, there are also stalkers, rapits, etc. Not the best environment for a lady. It truly would not be good for your marriage either. If you want to be a stripper-do it for your husband in front of him-and no one else.
2007-02-11 17:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by SAK 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not... hell there a men gynecologists, so why not.
Don't let the prudishness of society make you think there is anything bad about stripping. I'd like to see you, just because you have a passion and desire to do this, it's always a treat to see someone do something they really desire to do. Too many people just aren't into their work.
2007-02-12 01:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in Australia and perhaps not as familiar as I might be with things in the U S of A but my main concern is for your safety.
I can see absolutely nothing wrong with stripping especially if your husband REALLY doesn't object. Where "stripping" actually involves touching clients they are clients and not audience if you see what I mean?
Beauty doesn't last long and should perhaps not be wasted but I take a dim view (no not because the lights are low) of pornographic as opposed to aesthetic stripping. But then that's just me I guess. Your values are yours and mine mine.
Again be SURE of your security.
2007-02-11 18:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by salubrious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is fine with it, i think it should be fine. But if he ever starts to get jealous then i would stop. I personally would not do this because i feel that my body is ONLY for my boyfriend. And i know he feels the same way. But if you are both fine with it, go ahead, just watch for any problems in the future.
2007-02-11 17:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Stark 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that .I was a manager of a strip bar for many years and there were many couples that were both strippers and also couples that they husbands dropped them off with the kids and kissed them good night just like any other job and their were students that sentt themselves to school that way and then there were others that were so good they worked four hours a day made a fortune and invested in a beautiful house and car and things and paid them all off..thats all it was just a job
2007-02-11 17:47:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋