I have had anal sex only a few times, yet the last time, he ejaculated in my rectum. Is this harmful? I'm 29.

Question

I am married and 29 years old. I have had anal sex only a few times in my life, yet the last time, he ejaculated in my rectum. I know the dangers of anal sex, with the tears and lubrication, etc. I just am not sure if ejaculation in my rectum itself causes any danger or if it is harmful. Can anyone OLDER and more experienced help me out?

Answer 1

It doesn't do any harm at all. Since you're having anal with your husband, you are probably sure he is free of STD's, so it is perfectly normal and if he cums in your anus, it won't hurt anything.

My ex wife and I had anal sex most of the time. She actually got off more having anal than regular vaginal sex. So we did it several times a week. She didn't mind me going off in her bum and said that it really felt good when I shot inside her rectum. We were together for a long time and she never had any problems from me cumming in her bum. So don't worry about it. I hope that it felt good to you and now that you know it won't harm you, I hope this eases your mind enough to do it more often and really enjoy it and not to worry about him cumming in your bum. No big thing.

Answer 2

I am 8 years younger than you but I have had a lot of anal sex with my partner, and to the person who wrote that it is degrading to women has obviously never had anal sex before. It is a wonderful feeling and I really enjoy myself when I do it.
Just so long as your husband is clean and free of STD's there will be no problem with him ejaculating inside of your rectum. When you go to the toilet immediately after anal sex most of the semen will flow out straight away anyway.
Just make sure that you use a lot of lubricant to help prevent any tearing. The only harm usually to be caused from anal sex is if the tears or splits inside your rectum become infected. This may be from sperm getting in them or from them continuously being torn open due to too much anal sex.
If you are still concerned have a break between having anal sex and regular vaginal intercourse just to allow yourself time to heal.

Answer 3

I love to ejaculate in a woman s rectum. In fact, when I sodomize a woman, I make a point of ejaculating as deeply into her rectum as I possibly can. When I am ready to climax (usually after several hours of penetrating her anally with my large uncircumcised penis), I make sure that each thrust of my penis goes as deep into her rectum as is physically possible, limited only by the thick base of my penis and her stretched sphincter. When my spasms of ejaculation begin, I press forward and inward into her rectum, with firm pressure, to achieve another inch or so of depth caused by the extra inversion of her rectum. I produce a lot of semen, but because I ejaculate so deeply in her rectum, rarely does any of it leak out. Instead, it is absorbed by the mucous membrane lining of the highest portion of her rectum, mixing with her bloodstream. I imagine that a significant amount of my ejaculate load also leaks deep into her colon. This practice leavers her in an ecstatic state of pleasure. At this point I always enjoy looking at and playing with her gaping anus.

Answer 4

I think you are very brave speaking out on this subject. No, it in itself is not harmful unless you are asking about the possibility of an STD. The rectum is a membrane, so the STD would really have a nice warm area to incubate.

Answer 5

I just wanted to point out how rude and silly the first poster was... This question is fine and not at all vulgar. This is a woman's health QUESTION FORUM, and this question is dealing with a woman's health and well being. Get over yourself, first poster.

Anywho, other than the dangers you already know, ejaculate in the rectum is not harmful.

Answer 6

Same age as you but more experienced than you.

No, it is not harmful. Concerning STD's, if you know your husband is clean there should be no issue for you. However, concerning your husband I would be concerned if some feces got up into his tubes while having sex, that could cause him problems such as a UTI. To help prevent that I suggest using a condom while having anal sex.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I'm young but hopefully I can help you out. Everybody brought up the STD subject, so I won't expand upon that. But you should know that if he does ejaculate in your anus, you do run the risk of the semen dripping out and going into your vagina. Are you on any kind of preventative birth control? This could help if the situation arises again.

Answer 9

It is not harmful but increases the risk of getting cystitis very much because the semen together with rectal bacterias is dripping out and going into your vagina and all surrounding areas

Answer 10

No its not harmful, unless you're worried about STDs then there would be a concern since this part of your body is mucous membrane.