My boyfriend has gone from telling me that he loves me, wants to spend the rest of his life with me, wants me to live with him, that I am "the one", that he has waited his whole life for me, that I am the best thing that has happened to him, I met his sone and ALL his family, and so forth, to ending it and not really telling me why. He said he has some issues to deal with and wants to do it alone, but then he emailed me and wished me luck for the future, he'll always cherish our time together and I touched his life. He won't speak to me or give me a straight answer. WHAT'S HAPPENED????????
2007-02-11 17:11:02 · 18 answers · asked by Claudz78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know that I would even want an explanation after being treated like that. It sounds like yoiu two were having sex and he had his fill and now he's ready to move on. I think you are much better off without him..............
2007-02-11 17:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through something horrible. He is not even giving you closure so that you can move on with your life. If it doesn't seem like he's going to open up any time soon it is best if you start healing. It's going to be a long, tough and tear jerking journey but hopefully you will emerge stronger at the end of it. Nobody deserves to go through this. Don't go at it alone, keep your friends and family close. Think long and hard about what you're feeling and remember this if he ever comes crawling back. I sincerely wish you all the best in getting through this.
2007-02-11 17:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by NamGem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I say it's another girl in the picture.
Things like this just don't happen over night. From being all in love to wanting nothing to do with you?
For starters, he couldn't have felt as strongly for you as he said he did because, if he did, he would've dealt with his issues with you by his side for support.
He's not being a jerk about it so I think he kinda wanted to let you down easy but things like this usually happen when you're seeing somebody new and put all your eggs into that basket.
Let it go. If it WAS somebody else and it doesn't work out, guess who he's gonna come back crawling to? Find somebody that truly appreciates you and truly has waited their entire life for you.
Best of luck
2007-02-11 18:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Brother #1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's being very unfair to someone he loved or really cared for. You do deserve and explanation. But if he's not giving you one maybe the problem is with his family and he is choosing them over you. Sometimes life just isn't fair and we must move on. If it was meant to be he'll be back. If not, go on with your life and let time heal the hurt. Sometimes love hurts and there's nothing we can do about it.
2007-02-11 17:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with him? Sometimes guys get all wrapped up in a girl and are very very infatuated until they have sex. Their hormones take over and they are swept away. After having sex they realize that it was not love but only lust. He is just not that into you. Let it go and don't make a fool of yourself. You won't be able to change his mind.
2007-02-11 18:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, his issues it seems, don't involve you.
He either has gotten himself into some trouble and maybe wanting to take care of it......OR ....he has found a new love.
It's possible he is gay too. Maybe his family don't like you?? I've heard of guys and gals dumping their honies cause the family diodn't like them.
Id he won't answer you, cry, get over it and move on.
2007-02-11 17:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a fear of commitment if i had to shoot from the hip.
Hard to say really without knowing more information. Have either of you been married before, how old are you, how long was the relationship, are there any complications (location/job/custody/money/etc).
2007-02-11 17:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by compusmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they all say the same things. what, do u think u re the only one who a man told these words? maybe he just wanted sex with passion, maybe he met someone who performs better sex. why re u breaking your head over it when it is all gone? he is gone. u might try to revenge him if u have enough brains to concoct a subtle but vicious revenge. this will make u feel better
2007-02-11 17:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off without him.
Good luck on finding a man not a mouse.
I'm lucky and I wish the same for you!
2007-02-11 17:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by phudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has become like some people (I mean some, not all) turn into a dick! They always say things like that...and what some (I mean some, not all) can do is to turn themselves into a hot chick that they can drool!
2007-02-11 17:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Proud Espanyol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋