I am Vietnamese and the girl of my dream is Caucasian. She is in some of my classes and I talk to her sometimes and she loves my jokes. I think i fell in love with her because she have that bliss classic beauty that every guy wants in a wife and when i say that she is not hott but she is beautiful. I know she's too good for me and only another caucasian can date her and marry her but I want to change that. She lives five houses down from me and own a beagle dog and I brought the same dog (My dog name is Oliver) just last month I purposely walked my dog by her and she bought her dog out and they began to play like boyfriend and girlfriend dog. We are both 17 years old and love our dogs. Her ex-boyfriend cheated on her because she wanted to wait til marriage to have sex and I told him to dump her and he did because he doesn't deserve her now she is vulnerable but I don't want to take advantage of that because I respect her too much. I want to be her boyfriend, what should i do?
2007-02-11 17:08:11 · 9 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put the race issue out of your mind. I've dated many men outside of my race. She obviously likes you, and thinks you are a nice guy, so ask her out for a soda after school with some of your friends. Do things with her and a few other friends until you feel comfortable enough to ask her out on a real date. Let fate take it from there. Also, please stop putting yourself down. You are only as good or bad as you think you are, who knows she may already like you. Good luck.
2007-02-11 17:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get hung up on race. Regardless of skin color, you can't help loving somebody and you can't choose who you love.
Be a friend first. If she's vulnerable and hurt from dealing with her ex, she needs a friend and somebody to talk to so let the scars heal first.
After some time, maybe try to drop little hints here and there and take it slow. Lots of guys talk so don't just say you're better and that you deserve her, show her.
Also, if you want her, you're gonna have to drop the idea that she's "too good for you". You think this but I don't think she looks at you and turns her nose up.
I say go for it but be patient. You'll never know until you try.
2007-02-12 02:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Soul Brother #1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem like such a wonderful guy. You more than deserve her. It's clear you really like her, so your race shouldn't matter. She will never know how you feel until you tell her. Good luck.
2007-02-12 01:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should continue to be her friend untill she gets over her ex b/f. and always be there when sshe needs a friend, dont worry about race, if she is someone you like, the just be a normal human being, and forget the racial differences.by he way, i think viet girls are very beautiful, so race dont bother me.
2007-02-12 01:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
race, color should not matter when you have feelings for somebody
2007-02-12 01:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by kumiko2420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy and don't be pushy
2007-02-12 01:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uuuhhhhh...i envy the dogs =)
2007-02-12 01:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Espanyol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her to marry you.
2007-02-12 02:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR HER!!! it doesnt matter wut race u are...love is love
2007-02-12 01:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋