Sometimes i feel like i hurt people! But i'm so nice to them! I can't help feeling like that.
2007-02-11 17:01:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds like you are trying too hard to be accepted and loved by everybody.Just remember you can't be everything everybody wants you to be. Back off from what you think they expect of you and start to live the way you want to and please yourself! If you hurt others along the way it is only natural.We live everyday with little disappointments. Teach yourself to be number one in your life and do for yourself. You will be a better person in the long run and people will respect you more.Quit taking on the responsibilities of other people's feelings. You can't change them.Get rid of the guilt. It's not yours, don't take it. Good Luck.
2007-02-11 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know which impression is wrong? That is, is the feeling that you hurt people wrong, or is the feeling where you think you're so nice wrong?
Probably the real answer is somewhere in between. I don't know enough about you to comment too deeply, but maybe you're not as nice all the time as you think. Everyone believes they are considerate of others, but we don't know for sure how our actions are perceived. Anyway, we all hurt others sometimes because we can't always please everyone.
If you've got some situation nagging at you, then maybe you should try and figure out what about that situation specifically made you feel that way.
2007-02-12 01:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps somewhere in your childhood you developed a "I'm not OK" feeling about yourself. And perhaps you were guilty of something, like being born and were blamed for the life your parents had to live after. That is a fairly common one. Our parents are young, too young to accept responsibility, make love as you well know young people do, and you come along to mess the whole thing up...
There are other things. Like being blamed for something you didn't do etc. You know deep down. Hope that helps.
2007-02-12 01:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes we all feel guilty for the sctions of the human race.
I know I am down right ashamed sometimes of the things ppl do & say now a days,even though I haven't done or said those things.
2007-02-12 01:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Frogmama2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you are nice, don't worry about. people have ups and downs and something you can be the nicest person in the world and you can not please them. forget about it, move on and continue to be nice.
2007-02-12 01:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u have a good heart
2007-02-12 01:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by ohmydrpepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋