I'm 19 years old and I've waited and prepared a long time for this. I'm being responsible and I'm using depo provera, along with a condom, that needless to say, numbed both me and my partner 'causing him to go limp in like 15 minutes. I love my partner to death and he loves me. But anyways, with each thrust, and he was goin' slow, it hurt REALLY bad. I was on my period. So there wasn't any foreplay, but the condom was lubricated. I was producing some lubrication, but apparently not enough. And to answer the main question, my partner isn't huge. So, that couldn't be the problem. I am though, 4'10.2. Could I be smaller down in that area and that cause this problem? Is this pain normal? Will it be like this next time?
2007-02-11 16:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
When I said I was 4'10.2, I meant my height.
2007-02-11 16:59:18 · update #1
There is no standard size for "down there". I understand there are all different sizes. Foreplay is a very important part of sex and gets you prepared for the actual penetration. Probably you would have had less pain if there had been foreplay but almost everyone experiences some degree of pain. I've heard some people say it hurt just a little and others say it hurt so bad they weren't sure they ever wanted to do it again. Give it chance though. Once you get it right, you'll forget the pain, believe me.
2007-02-11 17:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by sissyd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 minutes???!!! Your man is a STUD!
But seriously, wait a week after your period is over and also don't use any numbing agents. The condom will should protect you adequately from any risk of STDs and pregancy. Oh, BTW, don't forget foreplay... mother nature makes the best lubricant.
2007-02-12 01:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by V-Starion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the first couple of times hurt because ur not used to it. u'll b sore for a couple of days if your tight. and it should hurt the first time. but, if ur not to sure about this, or if it keeps hurting, u may want to go to a doctor.
2007-02-12 00:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was probably tension on both of you. Next time take it slow and easy, and use some KY lotion as well.
2007-02-12 00:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jolly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since when is 4'10 huge?
2007-02-12 00:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋