i'm a black girl and all of my past boyfriends have been white, does anyone think it's wrong if so tell me why
2007-02-11 16:49:54 · 29 answers · asked by JAZMIN G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Nothing wrong with that at all, and don't listen to anyone who says otherwise.
2007-02-11 16:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hell no
And this is why: only 8% of the population actually date their own race, and this only in very closed comunities
Everyone thinks that there are like 3 races only: caucasian, black(african) and asian.
Yet there is a lot of differents tribal races, with different dna set ups in this world. Just because ur black, and u date some other black person, doens't mean ur dating ur actual "race". There are many differences between someone decending from somalia or someone decending from south africa, just like there are lots of diferences between someone from tibet, and someone from japan (but to the commun eye, u look the same).
For instance, me and my girlfriend look like a normal white couple: only that she decends from germans, and I decend from italians, and honestly, we look "white", but we are from completly different races.
Ur problem might be, that other people see this wrong, when actually, as I ll poove to u, it isn't
Btw the whole point of evolution, is mating with someone with different qualities, different genes, to produce a better, more qualified being for the next generation =)
Hope I can help
2007-02-12 01:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your going to get different answers from different people on this one. Some people are traditional in the sense that they feel that people from similar backgrounds make stronger couples. Some people are just downright racist and think its wrong because one race is superior to the other. And some people see nothing wrong with it.
I, personally, fall into the last category. I think that you can't help you are attracted to, who you care about, or who you fall in love with.
However, you shouldn't worry about other people's opinions. If it doesn't feel right to you, don't do it. If it does, don't let anyone else make you feel like you are doing something wrong. Just because another person doesn't understand it or agree with it doesn't mean its not okay for you to do it. Always follow your heart!
2007-02-12 00:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by ◦Delylah◦ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My fiance is also white. So i obviously don't think that there is anything wrong with it.
As long as he loves a respects you, that's the main thing.
I find the only issue of race comes around when you have mixed race children, but as long as you both along with family are knowledgeable, can support your child, then it should be a problem.
2007-02-12 00:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's hard enough to find a person in this world that you feel comfortable and compatible with without limiting your search for that special someone by race. We're all people after all and what connects and separates us has nothing to do with race and everything to do with mentality and beliefs. Nothing wrong with interracial dating or marriage. Best Wishes!
2007-02-12 03:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♫Silvi♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope not. My girlfriend is Japanese. It depends on your past experiences to whether you are open to multiracial relationships though. My Grandad was very opposed to the idea to start with as he fought the Japanese in the second world war. He slowly came round after meeting my girlfriend though. For some people it takes time to accept something new but it doesn't mean they are wrong. Just that they have had different life experiences.
2007-02-12 00:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by SR13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that people are people and you should date whatever race you want to date.
It is some parts of our society that make it harder on you for dating outside your own race.
2007-02-12 01:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's wrong to date someone of a different race, however if it does get serious I don't think it's fare to have children, as it's the children who sometimes get the back lash of different race parents from other people and they are the innocent parties.
2007-02-12 02:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Margaret 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no it isnt wrong
i am white and dated a guy from trinidad for years
it didnt work but that was due to what we each wanted from life and nothing to do with colour
colour is irrelevant - it makes things a little harder cos of the racist abuse you get - but choose your partner on their personality not on their colour
you date whoever you want to!!
2007-02-12 13:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also dating a white girl & im not white either. I dont think its bad as long as you love each other. The only complications are that you will have mixed bred children & their kids will be mixed too. I dont think thats a problem either.
2007-02-12 00:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by Claude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think this is wrong you should be able to date who you like and as long as they treat you ok it shouldnt matter what colour you are i am a white girl and i have noproblems with you dating white guys
2007-02-12 01:49:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋