Our Anniversary is one week away,we are splitting up?

Question

Our Maffriage has been rocky, we are on the verge of splitting is there anything we can do on our anniversary that can change status.
I was thinking of inviting our immediate parents to dinner but can it work out with the situation we are in right now?

Answer 1

i suggest something romantic that involves just the two of you first...an out of town weekend perhaps...a second honeymoon if you must...rekindle the flame.

good luck and God bless!

Answer 2

The mistake is thinking that other ppl can fix the problems..... and the other mistake is in thinking that having ppl over will lessen the preasure, I does NOT !!!!!!!! In fact it will make him feel backed into a corner..... The problems can ONLY be fixed if you BOTH want to fix them.... sitting down and laying it all out, putting the problems into words and TALKING them all out..... but, you have to make the promise to NOT blame or shout or cuss or point the finger, and to realy LISTEN to each other...... It helps to write it all out first. List every problem, things you each see as a stumbling block to a good marriage, what it is about urself that needs to be changed or compromised on, and make sure to list the good stuff too.... about the marriage and each other.... Make the rules of conversation clear and simple, write them down too..... when you talk make sure you also make room for a cooling down period, like each take a walk , seperate, for 10 mins. before resuming the talks, if either of you start to get mad , angry, hurt, etc........ TALKING about it will resolve the issues one way or the other....... maybe it will help to save marriage, and maybe it will make a seperation more friendly.... either way it is better for both of you......... God bless

Answer 3

i think that you and he need to just take the time to deal with the
issues at hand, bringing other people just to make it look good
is not good. if you are talking then maybe there is hope. good
luck to both of you.