ok...so umm i have a big problem. in skool im like really shy becuz theres sooo many popular kids there so i just get really shy nd never talk except 2 mi friends....so everyone thinks im dis quiet, shy girl....i really want 2 be loud and outspoken, but idk how to not b so shy....plz help me come out of mi shell!
2007-02-11 16:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be yourself. you can be assertive an articulate by participating in class and group activities but you dont need to try to be miss popularity
2007-02-11 16:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem at work. I've read a few books and they told me to enter the room feeling strong and believing i could talk and be friends with everyone even the cool people. I know its a lot harder then it seems. So don't feel sad, I've had this problem my whole life and I still can't get rid of it no matter how hard i try.
2007-02-12 00:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be popular. Try learning things about the people around you (other than friends). Then ask questions of the people, and listen when they talk. hello, Travis, I didn't know you played soccer? How long have you played? Could I come to see you play? Get the Idea? you do that with your Friends, so just extend it.
2007-02-12 00:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by T C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋