What do i do, and what would you do.?

Question

ok so i dont want to make this long so short and simple:

I was in the car with my cousin today, he brought my sister shopping in the city so i thought that'd id go just to get out of the house. So on the way back, i dont evan remember how but he starts talking about "c.ock sucking ******" ( thats in his words ) and how he wouldnt suck a d.ick for a million dollers. I am bi and didnt come out to anyone yet, so of course i was laughing but in my head, i just wonder will i ever be able to come out to anyone.?

Answer 1

Ya... I totally know what you are saying. I am bi, and have considered coming out to a couple of my friends (I haven't done it yet though).... Last week, I asked my friend about what she thought about gay marriage and she said that she isn't against it, but she thinks it is gross to think about a gay relationship... I acted like I agreed with her, but I was torn apart inside.

I have another friend who is not gay or bi, but I know she has NOTHING against gays... I think I have finally decided to come out to her. I think what made me come to this choice is that I trust her that she won't tell anybody, or make fun of me, or ruin our friendship.

I guess you'll feel when the right time is to come out... don't rush it (I rushed it at first and I started getting really depressed and I felt like nobody would ever know who I really was) just let it be for a while... and find a GOOD friend who you trust. Amybe instead of immediately telling them that you are bi.... ask them about their view on gay marriage and slowly build up to the point of telling them that you are bi.

It might be really hard.... But Good luck!!!!

Answer 2

I would have just asked him "what his problem was, or what brought this on." As far as coming out bi, its really not important unless you fall in love with a man, permanently. Then, your cousin will just have to decide whether he still loves you or does he become educated as to "what a f*ggot is." Meaning that most people (at least in the Mid-West don't actually know gay people, they just "know of" us. So, until we show them who we are, how can we expect them to feel comfortable around us, when all they've heard are stories?

Answer 3

Be prepared for some ignorant people (like your cousin) to give you a lot of grief. There is really no need to announce your sexuality...it's no ones business other than yours