18, pregnant, and alone.?

Question

Im 18 and 4 months pregnant my babys dad left me when I told him I was pregnant. Im looking for someone in the same boat. I just need to talk...thanks.

email me and then we can talk on yahoo messenger.

Answer 1

if you would like someone to talk to feel free to message me on yahoo my email addy is [e-mail] i am always in stealth mode ( appear to be offline ) but I am here so feel free to message me and I will be more than happy to help you any which way I can. Stay strong girl, you can do this.

Answer 2

I am sorry that you are in this situation. However if he took off he isn't any good for you or your baby. Believe me i was in your boat on the same river I know how you feel. I was lucky enough to have a man who wanted me but too blind to see that at that time. I was so worried about my babies daddy being there in some kind of way i couldn't see how great this man was at the time and is now. I hope that you will be so lucky to find someone who will be the man that you and your child need. Your young there is time and don't go looking for someone to be there just because you don't want to be alone cause your not doing anyone any favors. And if you never find that guy your baby is going to be lucky anyway because your baby will you have you. Be strong!

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear that. My ex's mother was in the same situation, but she was a bit older. There are a lot of pro-life organizations that can help you find an adoption agency or can help you out during the pregnancy and after if you want to try to raise the child yourself. Most states include prenatal care as part of Medicaid. If you don't have health insurance, you may want to check out with your city's Department of Health and Human Services. I've had friends, too, in the same boat and while it's been hard for them, they've found having a child to be a blessing. Oh, and make sure you go to court to receive child support from the father. He shouldn't have just walked out on you like that (though if he's around your age, young guys can do stupid things because they don't think there's a chance of something like this happening) and if he's paying for child support, he may end up having a relationship with the child.

Answer 4

My friend went through the same thing her baby is 6 months old I admire her so much for carrying out the pregnancy and caring for her child more than anything else in the world don't stress thats the worst thing for you just relax and talk to friends when people try to look down on you or anything for being alone just ignore it and thiink of how amazing life is and how great its going to be once your little one is here everything will be ok like she said
keep ya head up!

Answer 5

u are not alone anymore. U have your baby inside u. I saw a documentary on national geography about the effects of pregnant mothers has on their babies. Those who are always stressed up, upset, cranky and sad while they are pregnant produced babies of the same behaviour. Those who are relaxed and happy whilst pregnant produced non-cranky babies. I am just telling u this coz i know u must be feeling sad and angry at your situation but try not to affect the baby coz u re the one who is going to be there for him/her once she/he is born. Let your boyfriend be, perhaps the news came as a shock but goes to show his sincerity towards u. So forget him, whats important now is u and your little one in your womb, he/she will share life with u, isnt it amazing? To have someone to share your meals, someone to watch movies together, to play with.. Having a man and parties does not make a person feel complete like baby does. So enjoy your pregnancy. And love your baby they way you would love yourself.

Answer 6

i had my first at 16 and was alone i had my second at 21 and was alone i am now 28 and had my third finally my man is here for us all but it took years of me struggling alone to get to this point...its better to be alone then to be in a bad situation trust me on that...if you knew my whole story you would think my past situations came from a jerry springer show...you will be ok and just enjoy your pregnancy regardless of the guy who got you pregnant you still want and love that baby so make it the best you dont need any man around in order to make the best out of what you have

Answer 7

Hey gurl, well i totally understand you, i was pregnant at 19 and i too left my baby's father... but you need to be strong for you lil baby... he feels everything you feel... so this is the time to focus your self on your health and not the other things, i know its hard, but you have to try to stay strong... i wish you the best with your baby, and if u do want to talk, just send me a message :)

Answer 8

Having a child is a gift, but one that needs a lot of love,caring and attention - its a very tough and demanding job for a young girl who is all alone. You are so young and should be enjoying this time of your life and not tied down with child. Do the right thing and give the baby up for adoption - certain types of adoption, you can still be a part of your childs life. look into something like that. The next time - be more careful and don't have unprotected sex.

Answer 9

I don't know anyone that is in the same boat, and i myself am not in the same boat (i am 15, and not pregnant). But i can say don't worry. Consider yourself blessed to have a new life growing inside of you. God Bless.

Answer 10

girl i sure am sorry to hear this my sister was in this same boat 7years ago i know how she felt so i can only image that you feel bummed out all i can say is keep on keeping on you don't want to stress to much that can cause complications for you pregnancy but life does as far as your man he's the one that's going to miss out keep you head held high and look to god for your answers hope everything turns out ok