I am 31wks pregnant and am very happy about it. I have a wonderful fiance (he really is) but boy does he annoy me!
Often i realise its for no particular reason - he just annoys me. I get so irritated with him and have to bite my tongue so i don't snap at him. On occassion even when he is talking it annoys me... simply because he is talking! Sometimes i can't get far enough away from him and sometimes i completely adore him.
I recognise this is probably hormonal - it seems the more fat and tired and uncomfortable i get the more he irritates me... but wow! The poor guy (i'm having a lucid moment right now! lol). I really feel for him (when i'm not hating him). He never says anything and takes it all in his stride .. seems to think its just part-and-parcel of me being pregnant.
Is anyone else THIS neurotic about there boyfriend/husband/fiance?
I honestly can't seem to control it - anyone feel similar? Any words of wisdom?
2007-02-11 15:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Smiley One 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Some other pregnant women may not feel this, but I know EXACTLY how you feel. One day, my husband was talking to me and I got so annoyed that he wouldnt be quiet that I started to cry. lol. I think it is just the hormones, b/c I'm 33 weeks. I guess we just have to wait through it, and the moments we do adore our men, we'll have to absorb every moment of them. Make sure he knows that its not his fault that he's annoying... its the "wonderful" hormones that all pregnant women have. Just let him know that you love him as much as possible. Thats really all we can do. Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy, and God bless you and your new family!
2007-02-11 15:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when I was pregnant I felt the same way. Hormones can be a vary wacky thing, just try to remember that it will be over soon and that it is part in parcel of pregnancy. Sometimes you will say or do something and wont even know why you said or did it. In another 3 weeks you will be even more irritated not only with him but almost everyone around you. Getting up every 1 or 2 hrs to go to the bathroom or just can't get comfy. All that will make you very irritable.
2007-02-12 00:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by mistyhayze 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Yes, it's normal and it's part of the pregnancy hormones. Is this your first? I noticed it more with my first than with this pregnancy. With the first I'd have a crazy dream where I walked in on him with some girl from a shop we used to frequent when we were dating. lol.
I'd wake up so mad at him. I knew it was a dream but I was so irritated I couldn't stop. These days I just want some space. I think because I also have an eleven month old that is attached to my legs some days. I really don't like to be touched...it's strange.
Hormones...
Wait until post partum...
I'm dreading it. I had an easy pregnancy and think mother nature dumped on me afterwards :)))
2007-02-12 00:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly natural...it's all hormonal. You're in your nesting period and simply do not want to be bother no matter how nice they are is just sucks the last few weeks. Are bodies are tired and we are ready to give birth and move on. I swam every night for an hour and took a 30 minute walk to relax me. By the time I did that he was asleep and I didn't have to bite is head off or look at him! (lol)
2007-02-11 23:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way, as a matter of fact, I told him that I needed some space, and I called him and told him that and he almost fainted over the phone. Because I didn't want to be snapping on him so much, so I just wanted some breathing room because I had a miserable pregnancy and he stressed me out real bad, but it's normal to have those feelings about your mate, and if he loves you, he will go through the motions with you in your time of need.
2007-02-11 23:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it's definitely hormones. I am 37-weeks, and I've been going through it for a while now. I get angry, hurt, upset, annoyed, etc., etc. over NOTHING. Sometimes, I'm able to keep my mouth shut and let it pass, and other times....let's just say, it's not so nifty to be married to me those other times...lol. I write in a diary, though, to try and keep my cool, and it works. I just thank GOD that my husband is tolerant of me and sees the humor of it all. Congrats and good luck!
2007-02-11 23:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by herefordsun 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand you...your hormones taking over for time to time. When i was pregnant i couldn't stand my husband, i will always find something wrong about him to argue with him...but when i am calm i would explain him what's going on, that my hormones are swinging and it's not actually like me...sometimes I'll cry, be happy without reason...and he understood me and he didn't take it personally...so talk to your fiance and let him know that's hormones talking not you....he'll understand and congratulation on your baby...
2007-02-12 00:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by D_na 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds just about right to me. I am not pregnant and my husband can really annoy me! LOL
2007-02-11 23:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This will continue on long after your old and grey...
It's just family love....
I'm sure us women can be just as annoying....
But we don't want to talk about that
2007-02-11 23:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by ShiftyShadyBitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get to release all your frustration when the big day arrives. Then you will forget all about it and live happily everafter !!
2007-02-11 23:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋