I dont get it because I have some acquaintances (whom I wish were closer friends) that I usually hang out with when I go to school things and invited me to hang out with them at the dance last time but at last nights dance they didint seem to want to have anything to do with me. I got one hello and then I went over to hang around with their group and they seemed to move away. I knew I wasnt going to have any fun after that so I just left. (They didnt notice I left or anything) I can sort of understand because Im shy and I look uncomfortable a lot but I mean it wasnt like I was going to talk to them or bother them just kind of look like I was hanging around. Maybe I overreacted. And maybe I was arrogant thinking I could just hang around with them since they all came in one big group. But I mean that was ok the last time so what was I supposed to think. And today everything was back to normal I talked to a few of them and it was like hey hey hey buddy buddy.
2007-02-11 15:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No good ideas. Some folks are just harsh that way.
2007-02-11 15:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just not a firmly established member of this group yet. If you hung out with them before, and it was okay, and things were okay when you saw them today, then probably they just kinda didn't notice you at the dance and you misunderstood and thought they didn't want you around. I know that when people get together that they have known for a long time, sometimes they are not careful to acknowledge others around them because they are enjoying the old friends. Just keep trying with this group and be a good friend and see if you get more status in the group.
2007-02-11 23:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gotta admit these things happen. I woudlnt break up with a friend if this happen every once in a while! Heck with it ill never break up with my friends
2007-02-11 23:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by sillyup2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people get into themselves sometimes :-/
2007-02-11 23:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by bonto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋