I am 15 and me and my mom do not get along at all.... My aunt and uncle said i can move in with them but the way the do things is a lil "Different"... my mom doesnt believe that im serious about moving how do i prove to her that I am....she gave me permission to switch schools and move but she doesnt believe ill last and she thinks ill come running back home..
2007-02-11 15:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by ballerinagirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i get along great with my aunt and uncle im at their house most of time
2007-02-11 15:41:18 · update #1
This isn't an emergency. Your mom is probably right...I did the same exact thing when I was 15...and at 17. I regretted it both times.
2007-02-11 15:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me or not, but your mom seems pretty understanding. i mean, she gave you her permission to move and to switch schools, and i'm guessing your aunt and unclereally are willing to take you in....but you have to admit, she probably knows you better that you'd like to say. she knows what is best to you, and yet she's still let loose on your leash so you can find out for yourself. all i can say is if you are really willing to put yourself through the stress of moving schools and putting unnecessary strain on your family relationships (between your mom and your aunt/uncle, and stress on another family you'll be living with, and between you and your mom), only to possibly find out that your mom was right all along, go for it. the only way your mom will know you're serious is, obviously, if you actually go through with it. i guess you're a freshman or sophomore....you only have a little bit longer, then you can go to college and move out for good. it's better if you think about this a great deal more and make sure you are 100% sure before you pack up and move. the last thing i'm sure you'll want to do is suck it up and go back home to your mom like she predicted...
2007-02-11 23:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sirius's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved out when I was about your age and my mom and I started getting along better after a while and I did move back in when I was 17. Do what is best for you but don't cut the ties off completely with your mom. Good Luck
2007-02-12 09:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stick with Mom. If you get depressed with problems at home, you can always talk to your aunt and uncle. But you need to be connected to your mom. You'll get a little older, she'll get a little older and you'll find common ground. You'll see! If you move in with your aunt and uncle, there won't be a chance for that to happen. Just give it time.
2007-02-14 20:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo you go its time for a change like you want The only way to learn is to experiment but do not let a mistake at 15 set you up for a miserable life. If it turns outyou are wrong admit it and you will be surprised at the welcome home you will get All the best.
2007-02-11 23:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get along with your mom you probably won't get along with your aunt and uncles. Learn to follow the rules and you will be fine.
2007-02-11 23:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were actually serious, you would do it rather than trying to find out how to prove to your mom how serious you are.
So make up with your mom, you love her, you don't want to leave her, let her be right, she's the mom and should get to be right every once in a while.
2007-02-12 07:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody gets along with their mom at 15!! i know i didn't!! i never even got the option of moving out. YOu are just used to getting your way. stick it out and stop being a punk about the situation. Chill.
2007-02-11 23:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will, there is no place like home. i did get along with my mom
but that didnt mean i had to move away. You can make you mom feel like you dont love her. You better think about it
2007-02-11 23:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by ebabybrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like many people, i went through this too... every teen goes through this problem. i HATED my parents, they are divorced, but didn't want to live with either one of them. so ended up moving into a relatives, only to end up back at my moms. trust me this is normal, just live through it. sorry to say that and sure its not what ya want to hear, but your mom is going to be one of the best friends ya could have later on in life. my mom and i have gotten extremely close, i'm 21 now. and she is great!
2007-02-11 23:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by ricleigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋