Okay, my best friend is in love with a boy. Said boy has a girlfriend. His girlfriend cheated on him but then they got back together. He had promised my friend that he would go out with her if they ever broke up. He lied to her and she just forgave him. How am I supposed to help her? What do I do?
2007-02-11 15:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by 1010101000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be bluntly honest with your friend, she is being dumb for a guy and she is setting that as a standerd... which is way way low. A guy she didn't even date lied to her and she's just ok with that... that is a sign of low self esteem. Help her bring up her self esteem and explain to her what standerds are and where to set them. Ask her if you lied to her if that would be ok? For example you said you go to the movies with her if your other friend canceld well your other friend cancels and you don't gow ith her... is this ok? NO!!! lol good luck
2007-02-11 15:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Delaney my best advice to you is to keep clear of getting between friends and their relationships. It always ends badly. Just be supportive of you friend if she confides in you and listen to her if she wants to talk.
2007-02-11 23:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend she deserves better and not to wait around for a guy who has a girl.
2007-02-11 23:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She got pooped on so tell her to try and move on. Obviously if he cared, he would have made an effort to be with her.
2007-02-11 23:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by dgclip1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im all for being upforward and straight with people.just tell your friend your honest opinion. there isnt too much u can do.
2007-02-11 23:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by :D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's basically nothing you can do except just be there to listen
2007-02-11 23:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is in LOVE, deep love... if he pushed her off a brige she will still love him
2007-02-11 23:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by GeeksAreFreaks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do.
2007-02-11 23:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋