Okay...i've known this guy for about 3 years now...i've always been close to him cuz we have so much in comon...he's gay so we like lots of the same thighs...but a lil while we had a fight and he said he didn't want to talk to me no more...i don't know wut to do last time we had a huge fight he told some of my secrets...now i just don't know how or even if i should fix it!..help!...
2007-02-11 15:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HERE'S SUM DETAILS...HE CAUGHT ME IN A BAD MOOD N HE DIDN'T EVEN SEEM TOCARE...THAT DIDN'T BUG ME SO MUCH BUT HE KEEPED BUGGIN ME AN WOULN'T STOP...SO I GOT MAD...AN TOLD HIM THAT...SO AFTER ABOUT THREE HOURS I THOUGH THINGHS WERE COOL AGAIN CUZ THINGHS SEEMED NORMAL...BUT THEN HE CAME AT ME WITH JUST DRAMA N TOLD ME TO STOP TALKIN TO HIM...
2007-02-11 15:35:19 · update #1
Talk to him about it
2007-02-11 15:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a key component of any relationship. How long you've known him is immaterial. People change over time, and as such, friends can "break up". If you can't trust him to keep your secrets private, then maybe he's not worth having as a best friend anymore.
I'm sure he'll get over your latest fight over time. Once you're talking again I would express that you're upset over him telling your secrets and just ask that he not do that again. Good luck.
2007-02-11 15:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by lostinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time. Might not be easy now but let it rest a while. Drop him a line once in a while, like each 3 month, and see how he reacts. It's always a good idea to be the person who says "I'm sorry" first even if you have nothing to feel sorry about. It makes the people feel more comfortable saying back.
2007-02-11 15:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by YannDumont 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to ask yourself is this. If this person was not in your life, could you go on? the answer to that wil tell you yes or no. If it is yes... you need to comfront him, idk what to tell you if i dont know the problem... good luck
2007-02-11 15:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time see what gos on
2007-02-11 15:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he revealed your secrets, are you sure you still want to be his friend?
2007-02-11 15:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋