i dont now how and way may fil like a a a\m realy gay but i dont like it
2007-02-11 15:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by c0rneliu5 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ummm...sure.
2007-02-11 16:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. You know what's great? Writing in a way that other people can understand. I assume that you've got something going on with feeling gay and not liking that you feel that way, but I'm not sure, as I couldn't really understand your question. So. To answer what I gathered your question was, yeah, you can be "trained out" of being gay. It's not entirely a biological thing, just as it's not entirely a environmental thing. It takes work and the desire to change your behavior. But I have heard that most of the people who go through such programs only begin to hide it better and loathe themselves more when they have homosexual feelings. It just teaches you to supress them, and as such isn't any kind of a cure.
Then again, you may not be gay. You may be going through a time where you're attracted to someone of the same sex, but your attraction may only be to that person and you'll only like opposite sex people for the rest of your life. Sexuality is fluid. There really is no gay/straight divide.
2007-02-11 23:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by crashcart9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be very upset about this. You are even terrified. It is something you have felt for a number of years. You do not even know why you feel this way. I want to tell you a story.
Once upon a time, there was a boy who thought he was gay, and he did not want to be gay. He even cried a lot about this. He once told God that he was very sad about him making him gay.
The time on from there he seemed to stop loving God. Then he started to think God did not love him. That was not true at all. God loved him very much and knew he was trying very hard to be the best boy he could be.
He even told God he would never be gay. Then he told God he was gay. Then he told God he was not gay. This went on and on until the little boy was so confused he did not know what to say anymore. He just thought he was all alone.
Yet that little boy did not know how many other little boys felt just like him. He did not know that God loved every little boy that felt this way too. He did hear some bad words about it, thought God did not love him if he was that way.
Well God does love everybody that is that way, and he tries his hardest to show that person that there is other things a person can do to not let this get such a big issue. That someone could just ask God by asking in Jesus Christ name to help them understand it. Then this little boy would not be alone anymore, no not at all. He would have so many angels helping him that it would seem that the air was full of angels.
The little boy would not notice anything at first. It takes time to make changes. Once the changes started to happend, then so many more changes would follow.
This little boy could be someone like you. This little boy could be someone like you know. Yes, this little boy is not alone anymore because someone else has even prayed for this little boy. What a miricle it is to have another pray for someone who is in need.
It will take some time, but I'd bet that a little boy like you will see changes very soon. It is something that I can tell you. It is something I am happy to tell you. That this little boy will be just fine. He will grow up nice and strong, make a few mistakes like anyone else may do, but this little boy is no longer constructing homosexuality. This little boy has made a decission to stop trying to change everything and allow God to help him change.
This is the way it is ment to be. You and me walking hand and hand with Jesus Christ, straight or once gay.
2007-02-12 03:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are who you are, you'll eventually come to terms with your sexuality. Being gay is not the end of the world, gays are just like everyone else, we have our problems, obstacles, love and moments of happiness. It's up to you what you do with your life. Whatever you choose, as long as it makes you happy, it's all that matters.
Cheers!
2007-02-11 23:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ziggy S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you're lucky. it's a gift.
if you don't think so then you should go talk to someone and talk through your problems. it's not going to go away, and it won't get any easier on it's own.
2007-02-12 04:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough...but you will come to like yourself and who you are. We've all been there--you'll be okay...Right now though. It's just tough.
2007-02-11 23:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
homosexuality is a sin so its like your saying why must i be murderer or why must i have sex b/f marriage or why must i be a racist? you have the ability and the choice to change. god created humans not sinners
so stop messing with your self and get help fast!!!
believe it or not you are gay b/c u thinks alrigth if you put it in your head as something wrong like racism or murder your bodys guilt will overcome its hormones
Trust me i ve been there!!!!
im not religous but i believe in god i do my sins sometimes but i know i have the abilty to not do them whatever they are or however ok they seem to me
2007-02-11 23:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
yeah .. i donno why i must be a gay too =( ..
2007-02-11 23:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋