I had sex with my ex boyfriend after 2 years, he wanted me to see his new home and it happened. He told me that he would always love me and he know that he was still in my system. We haven't talked in about a year prior to that , his mom told him that she seen me and he told her to tell me to give me a call, I have called him a couple of times and he have me once. I still love him and care but we have our seperate lifes. We supposed to have gotten married but it didnt work out. Should I just let it go
2007-02-11 15:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by stressed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They say if love comes back it was meant to be
2007-02-11 15:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by sara69251 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch.
Do you really still love him or do you feel like you should because you had sex? You need to examine why you broke up in the first place. People do break up for a reason, and it's unlikely that getting back together will show that things have changed enough for you to be really happy. I would personally let it go.
2007-02-11 15:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by lostinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why push for something that didn't work out before. You both have had sexual relations with each other. That relationship builds bonds just like love does. Only love is more stable than the other.
Your relationship wasn't too stable in the beginning or it wouldn't have come to the parting of ways.
2007-02-11 15:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it just happened--you just fell over and wham---sex !! This story stinks--you didn't have to go back--you wanted to--and you didn't have to have sex---you wanted to. You care?? Care about what?? You just don't get it--either see him and get back---or get away and move on. An ex is an ex---you 2 are now friends with benefits---go get real partners before this sex issue becomes a problem later on when you do find mates of your own.
2007-02-11 15:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants you back. Do you still Love him? Don't overreact, calling continuously, just wait and see if he calls you back. Never play games with the heart.
2007-02-11 15:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I can give you a SUGESTION you cant get a true answer. If you love him and want to be with him get back together. If you dont tell him poietly and still request to be just firends
2007-02-11 15:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by sillyup2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both just weren't ready back then. Why not give it a try and see.
2007-02-11 15:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I still love him and care ". I don't see a question.
2007-02-11 15:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, or you will be waiting forever.
2007-02-11 15:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about.
2007-02-11 15:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋