I'm sorry if i sounded as though i was trying to solicate. and i am seriously not crazy or anytthing i have just been through a lot with DSS. i have 4 foster to adopt children now and the adoption will be finalized in about 20-30 days. i was wanting advice on whether to go though an adoption agent or just continue on my 4 yr. journey of trying to concieve on my own. with my husband of course. i love my children and would not change they way i recieved them for the world. i was diagnosed with PCOS 2 yrs. ago. just needed advice on which direction to take. and the reason i asked about some wanting to do an open adoption is because i was reading about abortion earlier and found out that there are more people than i thought really waning to give their children up for adoption verses having an abortion. sorry for offending anyone.
2007-02-11 15:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why can't you do both? If love these children and the adoption is almost finalized, why would you consider ending it? Would you love these children less if you conceived one of your own? I highly doubt that. In my opinion, I think you should continue with the adoption. Not going through with it will hurt the children you claim to love. Just my two cents. Best wishes and take care.
2007-02-11 15:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by raintigar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its alright hun, i never thought for one moment that you were trying to do things illegially, why the hell would you put it on answers if you were!!!
Im really sorry but i cant help you with your question and i wish you the world of luck with your next child!!! I know what it is like to go through adoption as my aunt did the same thing. After years and years of interviewing and stuff they finally found 2 children for my aunt. Then 2 months after receving the children she was told that she could no longer adopt the children but she was just "babysitting" at the time. The whole family was shattered.... Good Luck and i will keep you in my prayers.
2007-02-11 15:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer this. What does your heart tell you?
Good luck!!
2007-02-11 15:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋