we are same character, sometime quite hot temper.
2007-02-11 15:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by sadsky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to your wife and tell her how you are feeling. Be honest with her and try to reconcile if at all possible. See if she is open to starting a new relationship with you again.
2007-02-11 15:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a little late now. The time to realize how much you love her was while you were married. You needed to show your love, support and caring at that time. Now you are divorced. You say you have a hot temper. Did you abuse her? If not, then maybe you can take her out (date her all over again), and go to marriage counseling (so you don't end up divorced again), and re-marry her. If you abused her, though, you need to get some counseling to learn to control that hot temper of yours. And your punishment for not having done that sooner is that you cannot get your wife back.
2007-02-11 23:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you made a mistake and she feels the same, sit down and seriously talk about it. But both have to want to try again. But get the hot tempers under control or it won't work.
2007-02-11 23:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to get over her....You didn't marry her because you felt like getting married to this girl...
You married the woman that you loved...and will always love...
I think that allowing yourself time to heal and get some closure to things will help...
Don't expect too much too soon from yourself...take it slow...
And if after quite some time you still feel the same way...ask her if she would mind getting some counseling to make sure that you all have a functional relationship and friendship...and closure....
Then maybe after that you can see how things flourish...
2007-02-11 23:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your divorced move on. If it didn't work the first time I doubt it would work the second time a round. I am sure there is someone else out there for you. Good luck!
2007-02-11 23:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next step is to find out what you did wrong in this relationship, so that you don't do it again to another girl!
You need to learn "How to love your wife." "How to show her you love her. How to act like you love your wife."
You don't know how to do that, so you need to learn "how to" do that, at least for the next chick.
If you knew how to love her you would not have lost her.
2007-02-11 23:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away dont look back and look for a better future single or one day meeting a balanced person for you but not right away ,dont give in to familar feelings and make up never works out after a divorce too big a world with too many wondeful people in it just walk away and forget her
2007-02-12 02:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over her. The divorce obviously happened for a reason, and it doesn't sound like you desired it. Still, it's over. Find someone else and move on for your sake.
2007-02-11 23:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by lostinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings r mutual, get married once again.
2007-02-12 00:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u guys get divorce at first anyway? if u want her back, try to win her heart again. good luck.
2007-02-11 23:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋