Ok, so my job makes me cry every few days or so. Whether it be abusive customers, or nasty fellow employees, I'm bound to cry...
I've had boy troubles, bad situations with biatches (which have been related to the boy troubles, sometimes), and customers who have been so disrespectful and downright abusive, it's not even funny.
I've cried there close to 10 or 12 times, only 3 of which my co-workers know about, and I've come home and cried my eyes out more times than I can count.
This is my first job, and it can be extremely stressful, sometimes. Not as fun as I thought it'd be...
Not at all. I don't even have any friends, there.
Do any of y'all's jobs make you cry too, or is this not normal?
What does my co-workers seeing my cry 3 times make them think of me, anyway?
2007-02-11 15:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by La-La-Lacie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
this will sound harsh but there's a saying that goes.."its hard to soar with eagles when you work with turkeys". but hun in order to soar with an eagle, you need to hatch out an eagle egg first. decide which of the two species of egg you want to hatch out of. then you need to get a grip and grow up.
2007-02-11 15:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to work at Mc Donald's for my first job, and I cried everyday. It is stressful, and It is emotionally challenging. I had anxiety issues at the time which didnt help, but the one thing that got me to stop was convincing myself that as long as I was doing the best I could, I shouldnt get upset when other people are having a bad day. They probably dont even remember that they were mean to you, they're just going about their day like normal being an a** to everyone in their path, so dont feel so "special". Tell yourself that they are the one with the problem, not you, especially if you are as nice as can be. It also can make a person more or less mad by 'killing them with kindness'. sometimes is difuses the situation, sometimes they get frustrated that they cant get you in a bad mood like they are. All you can do is be you and let them go. dont let them ruin your day!
2007-02-11 23:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by translucent_spyder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not normal. There are plenty of jobs and you should be happy. If you are going to work everyday, why not enjoy it. Life is too short and the days are too long to be dealing with crappy people. Find something where you don't have to deal with customers.
2007-02-11 23:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no dear, i don't think you should continue your employment there if you are crying all the time. There is no need to torture yourself like that everyday.
2007-02-11 23:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kev 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT normal.
Maybe consider another job, or consider finding out why you are so prone to tears - or both.
2007-02-11 23:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, its not normal and it probly makes them think youre emotional......which is ok.*
2007-02-11 23:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Check this out! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, get a new job.
2007-02-11 23:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. it'll get better. hang on! if not, look for a new one. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-12 00:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by dmt479 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋