When relationships go sour and their are kids involved, whyu is it that the ex's bf/gf feel they need to interjecrt and put their 2 cents into business that is not theirs?
Let the parents work these issues out without them having to butt in and make the situation worse. My ex's trifling gf hollers in the background when he is on the phone talking to me about child support and visitation. He is a felon and has been out only half a year and he admiited he has relapsed on drugs and he has a nasty gf that always talks **** when he calls me. They can do whatever the hell they want to where they are but after I've been raising my kid for 9 years without his help, now he puts this crap on my plate and I don't want the drama. I wish he was still locked up it was easier to deal with than this mess.
But why do poeple do that? Btw, I also said my son will not go to that state where they live b/c she is unstable and so is he. Ex agrees. My son won't be a part of the insanity. Wish me luck!
2007-02-11 15:05:28 · 7 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They want to bake their bread on some one else's oven.
2007-02-11 16:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you hate to deal with the ex and her mouth just keep in mind that this is the best thing for your children. If the father wants to be a good dad and see them and support then bite your tongue and deal with the ex. I know it will be hard because your right..this is none of her business but he choose her and you choose to have children with him. I am sorry but good luck!
2007-02-11 15:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree! They should keep their nose out of your personal life, part of the problem though is your ex allowing that to happen. Don't let it bother you too much as he will have to deal with her crap in the long run, not you...
2007-02-11 15:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are so right! I have had the same thing happen to the point I said don't call if she is there and i hung up the phone. You are talking allot of sence. good thing your child has one sane person to be with. good luck to you!
2007-02-11 15:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just get off on putting their noses in other's business. It drives me nuts too!! Good luck!!
2007-02-11 15:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they can do whatever they want to do .
it's what you do with what they say that counts.
if your upsetting, your losing the batttle.
if your cool, you winning the battle.
don't let them get the best of you.
smile pretty, and enjoy winning.
2007-02-11 15:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She just don't like it that you and her man were talking, she tries to make you look like crap, so that she can seem better to him.
2007-02-11 15:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋