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2007-02-11 14:52:16 · 29 answers · asked by contactmeroom 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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It's the most wonderful thing I have ever done - going on 13 years!

2007-02-11 14:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0 1

I think it's a beautiful commitment between two people. I've had 35 years of a happy marriage. My husband tells me he is happier than he ever imagined. I guess we are lucky, though. Lots of people are miserable in their marriages. A recent poll found women less happy than men. This probably means that men today are not being "partners" in the marriage, but expecting the women to handle more of the household chores, plus work outside the home. If partners in a marriage love and respect each other, the marriage can be wonderful.

2007-02-11 23:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1 0

It is ideal if perspectives are right. marriage is meant for a life time no matter what that life time brings. Marriage is a relationship that never stops growing. You marry to be one. Not to be two different people going two different ways.

When hardships come it is the union that should hold things together, not division and bitterness. Marriage is a bond that should never be broken by infidelity and deceit. Man I could go on forever.

The truth is marriage is the right thing to do and it takes responsible people to join together in such a union.
If you are this tyupe of person then go for it.

2007-02-11 23:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 1 0

Marriage is not only love, it is a business. After a few years of marriage, you are very busy look-ing after your children, your husband, the house,.... , marriage is also making the most sensible choice in a partner, it is a bond with the out-ward sign being the wedding ring. It is a partnership, a team effort by two loving couple, a man and a woman.Love is the guiding attraction, and it will keep couples together.

2007-02-11 23:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by skeetejacquelinelightersnumber7 5 · 0 0

For me it is the greatest blessing that I've ever had. But nowdays it is being demoralized and taken so lightly that people feel they can just get out when they don't feel "in love" anymore. Marriages take work, committment, communication, compromise, and ultimately putting your spouse's needs before your own. A lot of people are simply not willing to work that hard, or they married the wrong person, so for some, marriages are unhappy, full of resentment, and bitter.

But me personally, well I love marriage! I made a committment to my husband to love him, even when I don't feel *in love* with him, and we are the best of friends. So to me, it's great. : )

2007-02-11 23:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 3 · 1 0

Be sure before you do it and make sure that it's the right one cause marriage is supposed to be a life time commitment! I don't think that it's for everyone but I think that if done right it could be the best thing in the world! I'm not married and don't plan on getting married but I hold commitment on the highest of all promisses!

2007-02-11 23:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Marriage is an old fashioned institution that we are led to believe is the "correct" way to live. For those who are religious, marriage is a union under god, for those who aren't, marriage is a legal union that is recognized as being the "normal" way of living. We are trained to believe we have to get married so we can have children, live fulfilling lives, prove we love one another, and generally be happy. This is not so. In the past women felt the need to get married so they could have a man take care of them and their children. Now, women can take care of themselves, and many are providing for the men in their lives. Men got married because of what they would gain from the woman's family.
In our time marriage is not a necessity, although it can be fulfilling. Many people are happily married, and those are the people who got married for the right reasons. Don't get married just because you want children, or because you want the house with the picket fence. Those are things we are able to do without being married, and without being ostracized. If you choose to get married, do it because you honestly believe you want to be with that one person for the rest of your life. Because you believe you will be able to find them attractive, have things in common with them, nurture the relationship for the rest of your life. Be sure you will never regret it.

2007-02-11 23:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by meh 2 · 0 0

I think marriage is a longterm friendly relationship.

i think marriage is like haveing a sister for life (since im the man)

i think marriage is like haveing two heads instead of one.

i thingk marriage is like haveing more money just to have less.

i think marriage is like cracking up and crying at the same time.

I think marriage is like having a mind that is consistently decided.

You have to choose to make a daily decision to stay with the same person. Consistently decided.

2007-02-11 23:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1 0

personally i have been married twice and think i should have my head examined ..I think that people should have to renew their marriages every two years or less..its easy to get into and sometimes a lifetime to get out of it and well one thing is i dont think we were as a species ever meant to be with one person.. two after your married everyone thinks i have this locked up so i dont have to take care of myself .. and well its just a bad idea.,but well thats just the way i feel tonight tomorrow i could possibly change my mind but its doubtful and well you asked so i gave my opinion

2007-02-12 02:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think marriage is an institution ordained by God to be not taken lightly and when you do marry it is til death do you part. Marriage should last forever!

2007-02-11 23:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 1

marriage is a big commiment that should be taken seriously by both parties. however if one/both people are unhappy after a while and the issues cant be sorted then it should be ended

2007-02-11 23:13:37 · answer #11 · answered by magiclady2007 6 · 0 0

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